{"id":2031,"date":"2011-04-12T01:59:27","date_gmt":"2011-04-12T01:59:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost:8888\/wordpress\/?p=2031"},"modified":"2024-09-15T15:35:11","modified_gmt":"2024-09-15T19:35:11","slug":"people-theyre-the-worst","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/2011\/04\/12\/people-theyre-the-worst\/","title":{"rendered":"People&#8230;They&#8217;re The Worst"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like once a week I&#8217;m linking to Joe Posnanski&#8217;s blog. Believe me, I&#8217;m tempted to do so more often. In fact, I&#8217;m surprised that someone hasn&#8217;t already set up a blog where all they do is use Joe&#8217;s posts as a jumping-off point for their own writing.<\/p>\n<p>His latest effort, at its surface a commentary on what happened to reporter Tara Sullivan at the Master&#8217;s but evolves into a discussion on Internet commentary, is typically brilliant. Go read it. It&#8217;s great.<\/p>\n<p>This line stuck out for me:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  I almost never read the comments below stories anywhere else because they can depress me to the point where I don&#8217;t want to leave the house.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is true for me as well. It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t enjoy a good debate or want to get a sense of how readers feel about a story\/post. It&#8217;s that it is rare when a comment thread doesn&#8217;t devolve into a pointless shouting match. It doesn&#8217;t matter what the subject matter is &#8211; politics, celebrity, sports, comparing smart phones, how to brew coffee, the best breed of dog to buy &#8211; sooner or later someone will take offense to another&#8217;s opinion, and from there it&#8217;s on.<\/p>\n<p>It shouldn&#8217;t bug me. I feel like I&#8217;m smart enough to understand that many comments are bullshit, people just looking to get a rise out of others. Others are not based in reality and not worth getting upset over. But I can&#8217;t help it. I tend to react to things I feel strongly about emotionally and before I know it, I&#8217;m shaking my head, can feel my blood pressure rising, and the argument gets stuck in my head the rest of the day.<\/p>\n<p>Because of this I&#8217;ve almost completely removed political websites from my regular reading. It doesn&#8217;t matter whether a site\/post fits my point-of-view or opposes it. I have a hard time dealing with the pure hate that seems to be a required part of political discourse these days. When it comes to sports, music, etc., I just follow Joe&#8217;s lead and skip the comments.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have a problem with people arguing their perspective vociferously. That&#8217;s the cornerstone of our society. I do have a problem with all the hatred and intolerance of others that we feel obligated to infuse our arguments with. It is possible to argue opposing viewpoints robustly without questioning your opponent&#8217;s intelligence, patriotism, morality, parenting, etc.<\/p>\n<p>For me, it&#8217;s easier to ignore comments completely than attempt to wade through them in hopes of finding some nuggets of honest, open debate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like once a week I&#8217;m linking to Joe Posnanski&#8217;s blog. Believe me, I&#8217;m tempted to do so more often. In fact, I&#8217;m surprised that someone hasn&#8217;t already set up a blog where all they do is use Joe&#8217;s posts as a jumping-off point for their own writing. His latest effort, at its surface a commentary on what happened to reporter Tara Sullivan at the Master&#8217;s but evolves into a discussion on Internet commentary, is typically brilliant. Go read it. It&#8217;s great. This line stuck out for me: I almost never read the comments below stories anywhere else because they can depress me to the point where I don&#8217;t want to leave the house. This is true for me as well. It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t enjoy a good debate or want to get a sense of how readers feel about a story\/post. It&#8217;s that it is rare when a comment thread doesn&#8217;t devolve into a pointless shouting match. It doesn&#8217;t matter what the subject matter is &#8211; politics, celebrity, sports, comparing smart phones, how to brew coffee, the best breed of dog to buy &#8211; sooner or later someone will take offense to another&#8217;s opinion, and from there it&#8217;s on. It shouldn&#8217;t bug me. I feel like I&#8217;m smart enough to understand that many comments are bullshit, people just looking to get a rise out of others. Others are not based in reality and not worth getting upset over. But I can&#8217;t help it. I tend to react to things I feel strongly about emotionally and before I know it, I&#8217;m shaking my head, can feel my blood pressure rising, and the argument gets stuck in my head the rest of the day. Because of this I&#8217;ve almost completely removed political websites from my regular reading. It doesn&#8217;t matter whether a site\/post fits my point-of-view or opposes it. I have a hard time dealing with the pure hate that seems to be a required part of political discourse these days. When it comes to sports, music, etc., I just follow Joe&#8217;s lead and skip the comments. I don&#8217;t have a problem with people arguing their perspective vociferously. That&#8217;s the cornerstone of our society. I do have a problem with all the hatred and intolerance of others that we feel obligated to infuse our arguments with. It is possible to argue opposing viewpoints robustly without questioning your opponent&#8217;s intelligence, patriotism, morality, parenting, etc. For me, it&#8217;s easier to ignore comments completely than attempt to wade through them in hopes of finding some nuggets of honest, open debate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[203,82],"class_list":["post-2031","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-internet","tag-tech"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2031","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2031"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2031\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14781,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2031\/revisions\/14781"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2031"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2031"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2031"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}