Before some kid notes, another holiday jihad for you.<\/p>\n
Years ago I sent a Christmas card to the parents of a college buddy. I found out later I had misspelled his mother\u2019s name – I thought her name was Lara but it was actually Lura – and I was horrified. I quickly apologized and she shook it off, saying I wasn\u2019t the first to make the mistake.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s a simple act of respect that goes into getting someone\u2019s name right. It shows you value your relationship with them. That\u2019s why I get all fired up when someone misspells a name on the address label of a Christmas card.<\/p>\n
One family in particular has been sending us cards for nearly a decade with my wife\u2019s last name spelled incorrectly. This is from someone who worked with S. for most of that decade. Keep in mind, S.\u2019s last name was clearly printed on the uniform she wore to work. Her last name appeared on all kinds of paperwork that this coworker surely had to read. And we\u2019ve sent this family our Christmas card each year, again with S.\u2019s last name clearly printed on the return label.<\/p>\n
But every year they spell her name wrong.<\/p>\n
I get that we make it tough on people, having two different last names. But that seems like a basic part of sending Christmas cards: reviewing address to make sure they\u2019re up to date, changing names after marriages, and ensuring the names you already have are spelled correctly. It\u2019s an act of care and respect.<\/p>\n
Anyone can make a typo. But misspelling a name, when you\u2019ve had countless opportunities to see it spelled correctly, over and over and over again means you\u2019re lazy, dumb, or an asshole. Or, perhaps, all three.<\/p>\n
People…they\u2019re the worst.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Before some kid notes, another holiday jihad for you. Years ago I sent a Christmas card to the parents of a college buddy. I found out later I had misspelled his mother\u2019s name – I thought her name was Lara but it was actually Lura – and I was horrified. I quickly apologized and she shook it off, saying I wasn\u2019t the first to make the mistake. There\u2019s a simple act of respect that goes into getting someone\u2019s name right. It shows you value your relationship with them. That\u2019s why I get all fired up when someone misspells a name on the address label of a Christmas card. One family in particular has been sending us cards for nearly a decade with my wife\u2019s last name spelled incorrectly. This is from someone who worked with S. for most of that decade. Keep in mind, S.\u2019s last name was clearly printed on the uniform she wore to work. Her last name appeared on all kinds of paperwork that this coworker surely had to read. And we\u2019ve sent this family our Christmas card each year, again with S.\u2019s last name clearly printed on the return label. But every year they spell her name wrong. I get that we make it tough on people, having two different last names. But that seems like a basic part of sending Christmas cards: reviewing address to make sure they\u2019re up to date, changing names after marriages, and ensuring the names you already have are spelled correctly. It\u2019s an act of care and respect. Anyone can make a typo. But misspelling a name, when you\u2019ve had countless opportunities to see it spelled correctly, over and over and over again means you\u2019re lazy, dumb, or an asshole. Or, perhaps, all three. People…they\u2019re the worst.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[56,119,83],"class_list":["post-3010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-holidays","tag-humor","tag-personal"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3010","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3010"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3010\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14377,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3010\/revisions\/14377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3010"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3010"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3010"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}