Our summer is off to a very hot and hectic start.<\/p>\n
Remember back when I was bitching about how cold it was in April? Mother Nature was paying attention and has punished me, and others in Indiana, who complained about her April offerings. This month is almost certain to clinch the hottest May in Indianapolis history. Yesterday was the hottest May day here in 107 years. It\u2019s stupid. I\u2019m assuming June is going to be wet and in the 60s.<\/p>\n
We began the summer as we normally do, heading down to the lake. We went Saturday, taking one of our young nephews, and were joined by other family on Sunday. So the girls were super annoying Saturday without friends to keep them entertained. They were slightly better when aunts, uncles, and other cousins showed up. We had a second birthday party for one of the cousins. The rest of the time we just sweated in the heat.<\/p>\n
Each of the past two summers, as we\u2019ve closed down the house for the season, S and I have had a very brief conversation about whether the lake house is worth it. We really only spend six or seven fun weekends down there every season, but we\u2019re paying a mortgage, insurance, taxes, and utilities for 12 months. We always talk about spending a weekend down there in the fall or winter, but never do it. Each of the past two years, the answer has been yes, it is still worth it. That math has changed.<\/p>\n
We\u2019re getting ready to sell the lake house, too.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s partially because we\u2019re getting busier and it\u2019s going to be tougher to get down there as the girls continue to get older. But it\u2019s also because our new home in Indy is stretching us out more on how much money we\u2019re spending on properties each month. It\u2019s tougher to justify the lake house when it\u2019s no longer in the comfortable financial zone to keep it.<\/p>\n
We told the girls a couple weeks ago, and they weren\u2019t happy. One of them cried for an hour. Too much change at once, I think. We explained our reasoning, but also pointed out that this will free us to do other things in the summer. They can have friends over more often. We might get to take some more, bigger trips. Eventually that logic has taken hold, but I still think they are, overall, disappointed.<\/p>\n
When they were acting like being at the lake was a chore this weekend, when I spent 90 minutes in the heat working in the yard, when I thought ahead to all the prep for lake weekends and all the clean up after, I was ready to put a sign out when we left Monday morning. I\u2019m sure I\u2019ll be in a better mood in two weeks when we have friends down. But after six great summers, I\u2019m kind of done with it.<\/p>\n
We are just full of bombshells lately, aren\u2019t we?!?!<\/p>\n
Our home here officially went on the market today. We already have one showing scheduled. It\u2019s been a hectic week or so to get the house as ready as it can be to start letting people walk through it. I believe I mentioned one of our next door neighbors had two offers the first day they put theirs on the market two weeks ago. That sets kind of a high expectation for how quickly things could happen. We also pushed our price up a decent chunk since they got more than their asking price, and we have more updates and a much bigger lot than they do. We could get an offer in a week, which would be pretty good, and I\u2019m pretty sure I\u2019ll be all stressed out since the neighbors were done so quickly.<\/p>\n
We went over to meet the builder at our new house today. Even though we bought after it was 95% complete, we still had to run through some bullshit marketing surveys to satisfy their execs. They were putting in all the landscaping today, which made the house look better. Only problem is it is hot and dry, as I mentioned above, and they\u2019re waiting on some final piece of paperwork to get the water line connected. We\u2019re supposed to have a pretty good dose of rain over the next 36 hours as the tropical storm remnants pass us, but if the water isn\u2019t hooked up soon, I worry we\u2019ll have to start over in the fall. Oh well\u2026<\/p>\n
I hope all of you had safe and enjoyable holiday weekends free of major, life-changing decisions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Our summer is off to a very hot and hectic start. Remember back when I was bitching about how cold it was in April? Mother Nature was paying attention and has punished me, and others in Indiana, who complained about her April offerings. This month is almost certain to clinch the hottest May in Indianapolis history. Yesterday was the hottest May day here in 107 years. It\u2019s stupid. I\u2019m assuming June is going to be wet and in the 60s. We began the summer as we normally do, heading down to the lake. We went Saturday, taking one of our young nephews, and were joined by other family on Sunday. So the girls were super annoying Saturday without friends to keep them entertained. They were slightly better when aunts, uncles, and other cousins showed up. We had a second birthday party for one of the cousins. The rest of the time we just sweated in the heat. Each of the past two summers, as we\u2019ve closed down the house for the season, S and I have had a very brief conversation about whether the lake house is worth it. We really only spend six or seven fun weekends down there every season, but we\u2019re paying a mortgage, insurance, taxes, and utilities for 12 months. We always talk about spending a weekend down there in the fall or winter, but never do it. Each of the past two years, the answer has been yes, it is still worth it. That math has changed. We\u2019re getting ready to sell the lake house, too. It\u2019s partially because we\u2019re getting busier and it\u2019s going to be tougher to get down there as the girls continue to get older. But it\u2019s also because our new home in Indy is stretching us out more on how much money we\u2019re spending on properties each month. It\u2019s tougher to justify the lake house when it\u2019s no longer in the comfortable financial zone to keep it. We told the girls a couple weeks ago, and they weren\u2019t happy. One of them cried for an hour. Too much change at once, I think. We explained our reasoning, but also pointed out that this will free us to do other things in the summer. They can have friends over more often. We might get to take some more, bigger trips. Eventually that logic has taken hold, but I still think they are, overall, disappointed. When they were acting like being at the lake was a chore this weekend, when I spent 90 minutes in the heat working in the yard, when I thought ahead to all the prep for lake weekends and all the clean up after, I was ready to put a sign out when we left Monday morning. I\u2019m sure I\u2019ll be in a better mood in two weeks when we have friends down. But after six great summers, I\u2019m kind of done with it. We are just full of bombshells lately, aren\u2019t we?!?! Our home here officially went on the market today. We already have one showing scheduled. It\u2019s been a hectic week or so to get the house as ready as it can be to start letting people walk through it. I believe I mentioned one of our next door neighbors had two offers the first day they put theirs on the market two weeks ago. That sets kind of a high expectation for how quickly things could happen. We also pushed our price up a decent chunk since they got more than their asking price, and we have more updates and a much bigger lot than they do. We could get an offer in a week, which would be pretty good, and I\u2019m pretty sure I\u2019ll be all stressed out since the neighbors were done so quickly. We went over to meet the builder at our new house today. Even though we bought after it was 95% complete, we still had to run through some bullshit marketing surveys to satisfy their execs. They were putting in all the landscaping today, which made the house look better. Only problem is it is hot and dry, as I mentioned above, and they\u2019re waiting on some final piece of paperwork to get the water line connected. We\u2019re supposed to have a pretty good dose of rain over the next 36 hours as the tropical storm remnants pass us, but if the water isn\u2019t hooked up soon, I worry we\u2019ll have to start over in the fall. Oh well\u2026 I hope all of you had safe and enjoyable holiday weekends free of major, life-changing decisions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[26,56,135,14,83,15],"class_list":["post-6969","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-family","tag-holidays","tag-house","tag-parenting","tag-personal","tag-weather"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6969","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6969"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6969\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13405,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6969\/revisions\/13405"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dsnotebook.me\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}