Month: March 2016 (Page 2 of 2)

⦿ Friday Links

A pretty light edition this week. (Update: have a sick kid at home for the fourth time in two weeks, so was able to read/add a couple more articles while watching Scooby Doo and Despicable Me 2.)


To begin, more love for Bill Self. I’m sharing these now since we’ll all be bashing him in a couple weeks when KU loses to a lower seed in the NCAA tournament.

Chalk It Up


The Washington Post on the perfect marriage between Alex Gordon and the Kansas City Royals.

How Alex Gordon made the Royals the Royals again


In my February Books post, I mentioned the travelogue Karl Ove Knausgaard wrote for the New York Times last year. Here are his two pieces.

My Saga, Part 1

My Saga, Part 2


This article is generally about the long-term costs of war. But its focus is fascinating: a daughter of a Civil War veteran is still receiving a monthly pension check from the US government for her father’s service. Or at least she was as of two years ago, when this article first appeared. Kottke linked to it this week and said he could find no evidence that Ms. Triplett has passed in the interim.

Still Paying For The Civil War


And last, an article about Prince and how he has worked with and against the Internet over the years to control how his music is distributed. Like all things related to music and the Internet, I don’t know what the right answer is. So I don’t know if he’s a genius or totally misguided.

Poor Lonely Computer: Prince’s Misunderstood Relationship With The Internet

Friday Playlist

 

“The Boy In the Bubble” – Paul Simon. I acknowledge Simon’s place in music history, but his songs never really connected with me. They were my parents’ generation’s songs, not mine. This is the one exception. I’ve always loved it and crank it up any time I hear it, as I did earlier this week on SiriusXM’s The Spectrum station.

“Pale Kings” – Shearwater. One of my three favorite songs of the year (so far). The last line, “Right nooooooooooooooooow!” is perfect for singing along to loudly in the car.

“Strawberry Fields Forever” – The Beatles. With the death of George Martin this week, I had to throw in something he was responsible for. Like all things Beatles, you can argue about which song he produced and arranged was the best, or the biggest achievement. Read up on what Lennon made him do with this track and you’ll understand why this has to be high on the list.

The Local Celeb

We have a star in the family.

My wife appeared on the local noon news yesterday in an Ask the Doc segment. Her topic was kids and sleep, one that was especially timely given the time change this weekend and the state reading test that all third graders begin on Monday.[1]

It was a fairly quick three-minute appearance, but it was very much live and I think it’s ok for me to share that she was a little nervous. There was the nervousness that comes with being on live TV. But I think the thing that gave her the most issues was something we didn’t know about: live bits like hers often have to be roughly scripted ahead of time so that the closed captioning can be keyed in before the the actual segment.

So while she could talk about how much sleep kids need, get on average, and so on for hours, in the back of her head she had to make sure she was not drifting too far from the words she and the producers had agreed on ahead of time. I think that would freak me out more than being on live TV. I’d be afraid I’d start rambling, realize it, and then get super flustered because I knew I had screwed up the closed captioning.

She did great. Which is good because she’s going to be doing this every couple of months. It’s always good when the first experience isn’t a nightmare!

I have to give her a little grief. She told almost no one that she was going to be on. A couple of her sisters knew and that was about it. So her dad and step-mom were surprised when they looked up and saw her on their TV screen. That makes me laugh.

The girls’ reactions were funny, too. I recorded the segment and we watched it after we got back from volleyball and dinner. The first thing they did was laugh uncontrollably. M especially would not stop laughing like a donkey and making weird faces and body movements. I really should have recorded her reaction because it was completely ridiculous. I think they were all laughing just because it was so weird to look at the TV and see their mother’s face on it. I’m anxious to see if any of them bragged about it at school today.

The host took a quick pic and put it on Twitter before the segment aired, too. So S got her first live TV appearance and Tweet in the same day. Not bad for a Tuesday!


  1. Nice timing there, state of Indiana!  ↩

February Books

Another productive month, even with a couple wrinkles thrown in.

I had my first abandoned book of the year in February. Leif G.W. Persson’s  Between Summer’s Longing and Winter’s End has been on my To Read list for a few years now. Occasionally I would breeze by it at the library and take a look. But between its size (550+ pages) and its place as the first in a trilogy, I always moved on. But I was very interested because A) I heard great things about it and B) it is a fictionalized take on a fascinating topic: the 1986 assassination of Swedish prime minister Olof Palme.

I finally picked it up last month and struggled through the first 60 or so pages before I gave up. I just could not catch the rhythm of the book. There seemed to be an endless series of knowing looks and comments between characters, meals described in great detail without moving the story forward, and other elements that were driving me mad. I wondered if some of the issues were because this book was translated to English. But I’ve read books translated from Swedish before and enjoyed them just fine. And the next book I read was translated from Norwegian and it sucked me in. Oh well.

On to the books I finished.

Beatlebone – Kevin Barry. My February reading was dominated by books that were highly acclaimed last year. This one seemed right up my alley, a fictionalized tale of a trip John Lennon took to an island he owned in the Irish Sea during the late 1970s, just before he came out of his self-imposed isolation from public view. Sounds fascinating, right?

In practice, though, the book was waaaaaay too arty for me. I struggled to figure out what the point of the whole thing was. In the end, I chalk it up to a book that other people get that I simply could not.

Girl At War – Sara Novic. This, however, I got. It is a devastating book. It centers on Ana Juric, a young woman of Croatian birth. The book starts just as the Balkan Wars began in Yugoslavia in 1991. Juric, then 10, lives through the bombing of her hometown, sees neighbors go off to fight at the front, and ultimately is sucked into the war herself in about the worst way imaginable.

From that starting point, we pivot to her adolescent and young adult years in the United States, then back her Croatian war years, and finally to her return to Croatia to reconnect with family and her best friend over a decade after the war’s end.

Novic grew up in both Croatia and the US, but I’ve not been able to find out when she left her homeland, so I do not know how much of the war she experienced directly. Even if this is pure fiction and based on nothing in her own life, it is still a haunting tale of modern war, where people who one day got along fine are suddenly butchering each other for no real reason. Novic explores personal identity as well. Both in terms of national identity, and what it means to never feel at home in the two countries you have spent your life in, and how war strips away what is unique about the individual.

This is a very good book, even if it is difficult at times to read.

My Struggle, Book 1 – Karl Ove Knausgaard. I’ve heard of the My Struggle series for a few years now. Last year I tried to read Knausgaard’s lengthy accounting of his trip through the US for The New York Times Magazine but found it too navel-gazey and odd to complete. Based on that brief experience, I dashed any interest in his books. But I kept seeing them pop up on Must Read lists, along with lengthy, effusive articles and profiles of him and the series. So I finally took the plunge. I’m glad I did.

If you’re not familiar with the series, My Struggle is a six-book, fictionalized account of Knausgaard’s life, originally published in his native Norway. The series was immensely popular at home, and that popularity has spread as the series has been translated to other languages. The series is notorious for Knausgaard’s frank and unapologetic detailing of many personal aspects of his life. Family and friends have taken public issue with many of the things he’s shared in the series, which likely has only made it more popular.

In Book One, the first half focuses on his teenage years in Norway, the strained relationship with his father, his struggles to develop his identity, and all the usual troubles teens run into all over the world. In the second half, we jump ahead to his mid–20s, when he and his brother have to deal with his father’s death and its aftermath.

I was a bit surprised at how much I enjoyed the book. For starters, Knausgaard admits that he did not write the series particularly well. He said he was often just writing to get the memories out, thus they often tumble out in a stream-of-consciousness style that isn’t the most polished. It’s all very navel-gazey – like that travelogue of his I couldn’t finish last year – running through thousands of rather mundane details and thoughts and actions to get to the good bits. And since it is officially listed as fiction, there is always the question of how much of this is based on reality and how much is based on false memory, or Knausgaard’s desire to change uncomfortable moments in his past.

That last fear is probably misplaced, because he doesn’t exactly paint himself in the most positive light. He is selfish, immature, hurtful, and awkward. That may be what makes these books connect with so many people: complaints from his family aside, he comes across as an extremely flawed, and therefore very familiar and sympathetic, person.

After finishing Book One, I told a friend I really enjoyed it but, honestly, could not explain why. After a little more thought, I wonder if my enjoyment of it is because it is the kind of book I wish I could write: not some clever novel full of unexpected twists and unforgettable characters, but rather something based on the everyday basics of my life which seem important to me but I expect will come across as boring to others.

Knausgaard throws everything out at his reader. It can be overwhelming. It can be a slog at times. But I kept reading. And I am anxious to start book two.

Downtown Owl – Chuck Klosterman. Finally, a quick read. Klosterman is close to Knausgaard in the library stacks, and this novel caught my eye since I had just heard Klosterman on a music podcast.

The best way to sum it up: it’s the most Klosterman of Klosterman’s books. It’s clever, but you always feel like he’s letting you know how clever it is. There are tons of wonderful pop culture tidbits (the story takes place in 1983–84), but sometimes the way he shares them seems ham-handed. The characters aren’t terribly empathetic. And for a guy who is always searching for the greater meaning in music, movies, books, etc., this story seemed curiously empty at the end.

Not a terrible book, but not one that I’m going to recall all that well in a few months.

On Perry And The Guys

The college hoops lull has arrived, a brief pause before all the big conferences kick off their tournaments over the next 72 hours. An opportunity to reflect on the regular season and think about the real tournament that is just over a week away.

In my case it’s a chance to begin working up a healthy case of nerves about KU’s chances to end their season in Houston. That’s an outcome that I figured had roughly zero chance of happening just over a month ago. After an 11-game winning streak to close the regular season, though, expectations are jacked up again. More than excitement, this is causing my stomach to tense and knot and grumble. “How are we going to blow it this year?”

I hate college basketball.

In my reflective moments, I’ve been thinking about how this KU team fits into recent history, and about Perry Ellis in particular. To me both this team and Perry are throwbacks to the college basketball I grew up on.

Let’s start with Perry. Dude has come a long way. He arrived with tremendous hype and pressure after being one of the greatest prep players in Kansas history. He was able to ease into his role at KU, first joining a team that was full of veterans and NBA talent which was coming off a national title game appearance. He showed promise but wasn’t asked to do a whole lot. As a sophomore, everything was focused on Andrew Wiggins and Joel Embiid. He moved into the starting lineup, got better, but it was never his team. In his first two years, he would have moments of brilliance, and games where he was a non-factor. Sometimes even less than a non-factor if that’s possible.

That changed his junior year. He made more improvements. He got more consistent and rounded out his game. He was the primary option on offense any time he was on the court. But, as Bill Self often said, he left you wanting more. Part of that was just his steady demeanor. He rarely emoted, whether he was up or down. There were also the nights where he was going against a taller defender, got blocked two or three times early, and then either kept doing the same thing and wrecking the offense, or just gave up and completely disappeared. By the end of last season, I think a lot of KU fans were frustrated with Perry. Good kid, but not the program centerpiece we wanted him to be.

This year he did what he always did. He got a little better in every aspect of his game. He added moves and patience inside. He became a very good outside shooter. He got better at putting the ball on the floor and driving. He’s not a great one-on-one defender, but he’s a very good team defender and can chase guards on the perimeter, which was hugely important when KU adjusted their defense in late January.

Last Monday’s game against Texas might have been the perfect Perry Ellis game. He made Longhorns center Prince Ibeh look foolish. He took him off the dribble and threw a shot high off the glass from the right. Moments later same move from the left. He took Ibeh outside and drained a three in his face. He beat Ibeh up the court to draw a foul. Ibeh is a better athlete, is taller, and can jump much higher than Perry. But Perry used his old man smarts and YMCA game to destroy Ibeh and turn the game into a rout before the first Tv timeout.

Perry Ellis has a ton of talent. He’s such a smart player. He’s gotten 15–20% better each year. That’s what college players used to do. Even the supremely talented ones paid their dues, and by the time they were seniors, they were a potent blend of talent, skill, and experience. It’s been a lot of fun to watch Perry blossom this year. I hope his shoulders are broad enough to carry the weight in March, and join Thomas Robinson, Nick Collison, and Danny Manny as Jayhawk big men who have led KU to the Final Four.


Regarding the team, they’re a throw back in a different way. They’re athletic in an up-and-down sense, but don’t have a bunch of high flyers among them. Every starter does a few things well, but not one of them beyond Ellis can be considered elite at their position nationally. And they’re fairly small, the starters going 5’11’‘, 6’2’‘, 6’5’‘, 6’8’’, 6’10". That group isn’t going to turn heads in the airport the way a lot of recent KU teams would.

Physically they look more out of the 1980s than the current era. And their style of play, which needs all five guys working together to function best, feels more like college ball from the 80s or 90s than today’s more athletic, isolation-focused game.

Which should’t be taken as a nostalgic, “Things were better when I was a kid” take. It’s just fun and refreshing to watch a team that is mostly seniors and juniors who have put their work in and rely as much in guile as overpowering people to win games. Still, I’m totally on board if Josh Jackson decides he wants to spend his year of college in Lawrence next year.

By the way, it is fine to say this isn’t the most talented KU team in the 12-year conference title streak. But as Kansas City Star beat writer Rustin Dodd pointed out last night, it is ridiculous to say that last year’s team was better. He put most of that on this year’s team not having a slashing wing like Kelly Oubre, who he said was overrated and not loved by NBA guys. I think that sells Oubre a little short. He had a few fine games last year. And KU could use a slasher with length this year.

I would add to Dodd’s argument that every returning player is significantly better this year than last. Ellis and Mason took regular jumps you expect from guys with their experience. Graham showed flashes last year, but has taken a huge leap this year. Wayne Selden is always going to be mercurial, but his highs are much higher this year. Landen Lucas has learned how to play Roy Hibbert defense around the rim and turned himself to a really good rebounder. The bench is deeper and more versatile than a year ago. Last year’s team might have had more NBA potential because of Oubre, but this year’s team is better in every way.

Please let that be enough to get past Northern Iowa, Providence, or whoever KU will need to beat to get to the second weekend of the tournament.

⦿ Friday Links

My Instapaper queue is crammed full of articles. Unfortunately for all of you, the bulk of them relate to a couple topics I’m really into now that won’t necessarily be that interesting to anyone else. So just a few things to share this week.


This is really long, and really geeky, but here is a very detailed look at how the Millennium Falcon came to be. I admit I got about halfway through and just skimmed the rest while paying more attention to the really cool sketches and storyboard samples.

A Complete History of the Millennium Falcon


This is a useful piece for anyone who has to communicate with a broad audience through writing. There are plenty of rules I violate and it is always good to be reminded of ways your writing has become lazy.

43 Words You Should Cut From Your Writing Immediately


Of course Joe Posnanski put KU’s Big 12 title streak in perspective better than anyone else.

Year After Year


Dana O’Neil with a fantastic feature on the informal “league” of games between the managers of college basketball teams. I love that records are kept and there are ratings. And that ringers come in and alter the outcomes. Pretty sure the anonymous KU ringer that is mentioned is a former Big 12 player of the year.

The game before the game: Inside the managers’ matchup


Finally, we just wrapped up a project where each of the girls got to re-decorate their rooms. The biggest part of the project was all their walls got painted. As we were picking colors, we laughed at the names given to paint colors. That’s kind of a requirement every time you’re browsing for paint, isn’t it?

Anyway, this is a few years old but popped up this week and seemed to go perfectly with what we’ve been doing.

The Color Thesaurus

Fun At The Grocery

Spring is nigh. Sure, it snowed here today, and is expected to again on Saturday. But it is also supposed to jump into the 70s next week. Mornings and evenings are getting a little brighter each day as our daylight stretches out. Spring training baseball has begun. My anticipation of warmer days is like a little kid’s on December 10 counting down the days until Christmas.

Also, love is in the air.

This morning I made my weekly grocery shopping trip, delayed a bit because L was home sick Monday and Tuesday and I was just lazy yesterday. As I was checking out today, the woman bagging my groceries shared some big news.

“I get off at 2:00 today instead of 4:30 because my boyfriend is moving in with me.”

I assumed she was talking to her coworker running the register, so at first I didn’t say anything. Then I noticed she was looking directly at me so apparently her announcement was indeed intended for my ears.

I tried to recover.

“Oh…wow…that’s exciting news!”

She beamed. “I know!”

Now the grocery store I frequent is like most around here: during the daytime shift they are heavily staffed with folks who often face obstacles finding jobs. There are people who have Downs syndrome, others who are clearly somewhere on the Asperger’s or Autism continuums. Some folks just ran into a bad patch somewhere in their lives and are just trying to get back on track.

Which I love. Ninety percent of the time they are not just enthusiastic about their work, but they are also eager to talk to you. I don’t get a lot of adult interaction during my days, so I appreciate these little conversations.

But, I have to admit, this was kind of a new grocery store chat for me. That was complicated by this woman’s appearance. She didn’t seem to have any chromosomal or developmental issues. Which, of course, means nothing. There are plenty of autistic people who will come across as your average Joe or Jane most of the time. And it’s not like “normal” people don’t overshare, too.

Anyway, our exchange continued as she told me she had dated this guy for five years, they broke up, but now they were back together and getting ready to cohabitate.

“That’s a big step,” I said.

“It is!” she said with a mix of excitement and nervousness. “But he’s a good guy. The other guys that try to date me are all so weird!”

Hmmm, you don’t say, I thought but did not speak.

I then told her that since I have three daughters, I bet I’ll think all guys are weird when the girls are old enough to date. She liked that.

When she was done bagging up my purchases and wished me a good day, I said the same and told her “Good luck!”

“Thanks!” Clearly her day was made. And she had five more hours to share with people!

Then I ran out to my truck, threw the groceries in the back, and texted my wife relating my encounter. I’m pretty sure the bagger lady would have wanted it that way.

Our Other Winter Court

I’ve shared quite a bit about L’s first basketball season. C didn’t play a winter sport, but did go to a softball clinic Saturday and had a great time. She’s excited to play both softball and go through her first kickball season this spring. That leaves M, who is in her second year of volleyball.

Unfortunately, we had a lot of conflicts between volleyball and basketball over the past month. And since I was coaching basketball, I only got to see M play in about half of her games. But I’m happy to report that she improved a ton from last year.

In her fourth-grade year, she rarely got a serve over the net and struggled returning the ball. She was one of several kids who made it onto the court only for a few plays before being subbed out without serving.

This year, though, she has made fantastic strides. She has a pretty decent serve. It arcs just over the net about 85% of the time, which causes all kinds of problems for the receiving team. Those front-line girls are never sure if the serve is going to be short, catch the net, or make it over. M has had a number of aces because the other team is frozen, unsure how to react. When I’ve watched her play, she’s had two different runs of serving five or more straight points. Most notably, this year when she gets subbed out, she usually gets put back in when her spot in the rotation is due to serve. It’s made me a little extra proud that a lot of the season she has been paired with a taller sixth grader. That girl comes in when their spot is on the front line, and M comes back in when it’s time to serve.

She’s done a really good job returning and passing, as well. Last year she seemed afraid of the ball, often made moves at it late, and if she made contact, she wasn’t sure where to aim. Now she calls loudly for the ball, goes after it,[1] and does a really good job getting it back over the net. It’s like she’s a completely different kid this year. She’s been a lot of fun to watch. It’s cool to see her realizing how much she’s improved, too. I think those moments of pride for kids who aren’t athletic studs from day one go a long way.

As for her team, CYO groups fifth and sixth graders together. St. P’s has five 5/6 teams this year and she got slotted onto one of the C teams. Which was about right for her skill level. M’s team finished the regular season 4–3. They go smoked pretty good in all three losses,[2] had a couple lopsided wins, and won their other two matches in three sets. This week is all practice before the tournament begins next Tuesday.

The level of play is much easier to watch at this level. Most girls are capable of making a decent play on the ball. There aren’t a ton of long rallies, but there are more 3–4 hit rallies than there were in 4th grade. As always, though, the serve is the most important part of winning. The team that can consistently start a point by getting the ball over the net has a great chance to win. And if they have a girl or two that can serve over handed, you can almost give them the game. In a match last week, the other team started out on an 11–0 run thanks to a girl who could smack her over-handed serve with some decent pace. She might have served out the game if she hadn’t sent one just wide on the 12th point of the game.

As with every sport she’s played, M is always excited to be part of the group. She’s enthusiastic and supportive. It makes it more fun to watch as a parent now that her skill level has improved and she’s a contributing part of the team. Throw in the ways she’s changed physically in the past year – she might still be around average height compared to her classmates, but she sure seems taller this year – and it’s like watching a completely different kid than we watched a year ago.


  1. Sometimes too well. As pleased as I am by this new-found aggressiveness, I did have to yell “Stay in your spot!” at her once last week after she called off the girl playing front-center when M was supposed to be in the back-left slot.  ↩
  2. I saw one of those losses. That school must be loaded with talent, because they had two girls that were in the 5’8’‘–5’9’’ range. On a 5/6 C team!  ↩
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