Month: December 2023 (Page 1 of 2)

Jayhawk Talk: Bowl Game Breakdown

I planned on taking most of this week off from blogging. But Tuesday’s bizarre shitshow of a football game that was the Guaranteed Rate Bowl[1] required me to share a few words about the mighty Kansas Jayhawks winning nine games for the first time since the 2007 season. I mean, I was up until 1:45 AM, and then struggled to sleep, because of this stupid game and its aftermath. I’m going to have some thoughts.

The lead up to the game should have been a hint of where we were headed. First Dominick Puni announced he would not be playing in the game to prepare for the NFL Draft. What a rise for a kid who was barely recruited to Central Missouri then got hurt and received an offer from KU based on one game’s tape. He was first team All Big 12 and is going to have a long NFL career if his body cooperates.

Also out was Bryce Cabeldue because of injury. So KU would be missing both offensive tackles. But the team actually had depth on the line for the first time ever, and a month to prepare. That did not worry me.

Then my Indy homie Austin Booker, also a first team all conference player, announced he would not be playing. Again the assumption is he is declaring for the draft, although there are rumors he could come back. He was KU’s best and really only consistent pass rusher and I thought his absence could be huge against a very good offensive team like UNLV.

Finally, hours before the game, news broke that Devin Neal had told coaches he would be coming back for his senior year. Huzzah! More on him in a bit.

Then the game.

I’m not sure I’ve ever seen a game like it.

KU played amazing for roughly two-thirds of the game, good enough to rack up 49 points on six Jason Bean touchdown passes, with Lawrence Arnold and Luke Grimm both catching three. Grimm ripped off 160 yards on four catches. FOUR! Arnold making one of the best catches you’ll ever see for his first touchdown, only to be topped by Quentin Skinner one possession later. KU had touchdown drives that went for 98 and 99 yards. They had four scoring plays of 40 yards or more, two coming on fourth downs.

When KU was good Tuesday, they were awesome.

But KU also set school records for most total penalties and penalty yards in a game. A team that had been penalized 55 times through 12 games got hit for 18 accepted penalties for 210 yards. Which would have been fine, if it weren’t for several of those calls being very strange. A personal foul when there was no contact between anyone on KU and UNLV after a Cobee Bryant interception. A face mask call against KU that came very late and when replay showed it wasn’t close to a face mask. Then a non-call when Devin Neal had his face mask grabbed and the official literally laughing in his face when he complained. Another personal foul when replay showed two UNLV players hitting a KU lineman, who was flagged for responding. There was a stretch in the second quarter when it seemed like every play was followed by a flag, usually on KU.

What made these calls even worse was the absolutely awful ESPN coverage, which rarely showed a replay of the alleged offense. Even when they did show a replay – like on the phantom face mask against KU – the announcers somehow agreed with the call. “There you see he grabs his face mask and doesn’t let go…” when the replay shows the Jayhawk with a handful of jersey and no part of the helmet. Just maddening.

Now that you can gamble on everything, there were degenerates all over the country who had no loyalty to KU other than their money riding on a KU win screaming on Twitter about crazy, inexplicable calls going for the team from Las Vegas. One guy from Ohio took it very seriously and claimed it was one of his best gambling wins ever, overcoming the “crooked” refs who tried to steal the game. We live in weird times.

When the announcers kind of suck to begin with, the production of the game is a C- at best, and your team seems to be getting screwed, it takes all the fun out of watching. I had to switch TVs and chairs. A few friends I had been texting with totally stopped. I eventually muted the TV and had the KU radio broadcast on my phone. I couldn’t get it exactly synced up, but it was better than listening to the ESPN fools.

Switching to radio was a true revelation. They actually broke down plays, provided context, and explained to listeners what was going on, unlike the banal chatter you heard on ESPN. KU analyst David Lawrence suggested that the refs had got into the entire KU team’s head, and they needed to calm down and just play when a 21-point lead shrunk to just four points. Which they finally did and blew the game open. I would suggest the refs got into all our heads. Hell, I think they got into their own heads.

Thank goodness this game was meaningless or I might really have been worked up!

The game kind of summed up Jason Bean’s career. Some brilliant throws in the first half, followed by three horrible throws that were all picked off and let UNLV back into the game. Then a stunning fourth quarter where he picked the defense apart with three surgical throws. The knock on Bean before this year was his inaccuracy and his lack of instincts. He made himself a hell of a lot better this year, dialing in the location on his throws and rarely missing guys by ten yards the way he had in the past. He has a highlight reel full of pin-point deliveries this year. His instincts were still a little suspect, but the KU coaches learned how to put him in positions where success was much more likely. Like so many KU fans, this kid became one of my all-time favorites this year with how he battled, how he shook off failure, those big moments, and how emotionally and honestly he handled moments like beating OU and winning a bowl game. A true Jayhawk legend.

So nine wins, which is pretty awesome. The first bowl win since 2008. Eight of eleven staters on offense return, although the departing players all played huge roles and will not be easily replaced. But fill in those holes on the offensive line, find a pass rusher, let the depth in the secondary fill in for Kenny Logan (another KU legend), bring Cobee Bryant back, find a kicker, keep any key contributors from being poached by higher level schools, and get Jalon Daniels healthy and the Jayhawks are a legitimate Big 12 contender next year.

To be sure, those are a lot of To Dos for the offseason. For the first time in decades, though, KU’s list of questions for next season are no longer than the teams they’ll be playing against each week in the Big 12.

Finally, this lady stole my shirt idea. I really need to find one. She knows what’s up.

Reaching For The Stars, Vol. 95

Chart Week: December 16, 2023
Song: “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” – Darlene Love
Chart Position: #21. Current all-time high is #15 the week of January 7, 2023.

I heard the wonderful tidbit this post is built around earlier this year on an AT40 from December 1984. It was one of Casey’s “Special Reports,” music trivia blurbs not related to the current countdown that were occasionally inserted between songs. I copied down the details, wondering if there was some way I could work it into an RFTS post. When this holiday season rolled around I realized that thanks to the updated Billboard rules, I could write about it while using a modern chart.

In that 1984 Special Report, Casey shared the story of the now legendary holiday album, A Christmas Gift For You From Phil Spector. As strange as it may sound today, in the final month of the greatest year in pop music history, that album had largely been forgotten.

Casey said that project was Spector’s “white elephant.” He spent an insane amount of time and money making it, recording every track countless times until they met his mental image of the perfect sound. He wanted to make THE classic Christmas album, one that every American would know for generations to come.

However, history got in the way of Spector’s dreams for the album. It was released on November 22, 1963, the day that President John F. Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas. In the nation’s season of mourning, record buyers were not in the mood for bright, happy Christmas songs. The album bombed. “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” was the single sent to radio stations, and it had the same fate, disappearing quickly from the airwaves.

By 1984 the album was essentially out of print, according to Casey. I’ve learned that wasn’t exactly true. It had been re-released several times, including in both 1983 and 1984, but never generated much sales. Casey said that finding a copy in 1984 was extremely difficult, and they were highly prized among a small group of collectors. Again, I don’t think this represents reality, but it does to speak to how little of a cultural impact the album had made to this point.

Times were about to change, though.

Earlier in 1984, “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” was the soundtrack for the opening scene of Steven Spielberg’s Gremlins, the fourth-biggest grossing movie of that terrific box office year.

In 1986 Darlene Love performed the song on Late Night with David Letterman, a tradition that would continue for 29 years.[1]

A year later, A Christmas Gift For You From Phil Spector was released on compact disc. This was perfect timing, as the 1990s brought a dramatic increase in the number of radio stations that played holiday music between Thanksgiving and Christmas. By the turn of the millennium, Love, The Ronettes, and The Crystals all had tracks from Spector’s album that had become December radio mainstays.

Also in 1987, a U2 cover of “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” was included on the A Very Special Christmas album that raised funds for Special Olympics. That helped (re)introduce the song to my generation. It is also the only cover of Love’s original that is worth listening to.[2]

All these developments turned a nearly forgotten track on a buried album into a holiday classic.

I can’t be unbiased about this song. As I’ve said in past holiday seasons, it is my favorite modern Christmas record. Everything about it is perfect. Love’s vocals are a volcanic surge of emotion. She sings as if she can bridge the gap to her lost love with her voice alone. Countering Love are the backing vocalists – including Cher! – who sing so causally that they almost seem bored. Every note is filled with sadness and yearning, yet also with happiness and hope. That is the true genius of this song, how it takes that mix of joy and pain that is present during the holidays and turns it into a glorious, three-minute pop tune.

As Billboard revised its rules over the years, Christmas music began hitting the mainstream singles chart regularly in the mid–2010s. December 13, 2014 was the first week “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” registered on the pop chart. It is now a perennial entry on the Hot 100, reaching #15 earlier this year. Given the rise of Brenda Lee’s “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree” to number one this year, there’s an excellent chance that Love’s track has a higher peak ahead as well.

Rolling Stone magazine rated “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” as the greatest rock ’n’ roll Christmas song of all time in 2010. They weren’t wrong. Spector got his wish. It took nearly 30 years, but eventually A Christmas Gift For You From Phil Spector became a bonafide classic. 10/10

I was going to share Love’s first appearance on Late Night With David Letterman to close this post. But, in a true Christmas miracle, earlier this week Letterman posted a video of Love reuniting with him. The piece ends with her 29th rendition of the song with Paul Shaffer.

Merry Christmas everybody!


  1. She performed the song 28 times in that span, missing 2007 when a writer’s strike shut down Letterman’s show.  ↩
  2. Every other version can fuck right off.  ↩

Jayhawk Talk

As tends to happen in these pre-holiday weeks, time has gotten away from me a bit. I can’t believe it is Thursday and I still haven’t written about KU’s win in Bloomington last Saturday. Turns it was good to put it off as now I can write about football signing day, too.


KU-IU Hoops


This game was played at the same time as L’s JV game Saturday. Actually they started a few minutes earlier in B-town, so I knew the Jayhawks were down 15–6 or whatever early. I casually checked the score during timeouts and saw that lead bounce around. In the second half I saw KU was down 11 and decided to concentrate on the game in front of me. There’s another KU dad in our parent group and we exchanged worried looks.

When the JV game ended I checked and KU was down just one. I tapped my fellow Jayhawk on the shoulder as I went to the concession stand and let him know. Another dad who got pulled into keeping the book actually had the game up on his phone – I never figured out how – so I was trying to sneak glances from my seat but was always blocked. Anyway, I was pleased when the game went final and KU walked off the court with a four-point win after trailing by as many as 13.

I watched the game Sunday. From what I read on Twitter during the game, IU could have easily been up 20 in the first half, and there was all the usual complaining. From my view, with the benefit of knowing the outcome, KU didn’t play that bad in the first half. They missed a ton of shots at the rim (evergreen KU critique) or that were wide-open from the perimeter (same). They had multiple chances to seize the momentum, but missed each one, and IU took advantage.

That second half run was fantastic. We started to see Bill Self making some adjustments to open things up for the offense. Hunter Dickinson moved closer to the high post. He can knock down shots from there plus hit teammates who cut into the newly-opened area around the rim. When Kevin McCullar and KJ Adams can attack the rim, KU is at its best.

DaJuan Harris was magnificent in the final 12 minutes or so. He’s been a little off recently, his entire game looser than normal. Saturday he was locked in, as demonstrative as he’s been all season, and made some huge plays when KU went on a 15–4 run.

Indiana isn’t a great team, but they do have some nice parts – Mackenzie Mgbako would be a great sixth man at KU, so makes total sense he chose IU where he can start – were locked in for about 30 minutes, and had Assembly Hall roaring in support. KU weathered all of that and were the better team in the last ten minutes.

It is wins like this, road games against inferior teams playing over their heads, that will make the difference in what should be another extremely competitive Big 12 season. KU acted like they had been there before on Saturday. Hopefully that pays off over the next two months.

It was obviously a fun win for me, as IU friends can’t talk smack about beating the mighty Jayhawks and I can proudly wear my KU gear around Indy.

M babysat for S’s cousin and her husband who went to the game. I made sure she greeted them with a “Rock Chalk,” when they returned home.


Eric Montross

A quick aside about Indy native and North Carolina alum Eric Montross, who passed away earlier this week at the age of 52.

I remember what a huge deal it was when Montross chose North Carolina over Michigan, where his dad and grandfather had played, and IU, who was still amongst the most elite of basketball schools, in 1990.[1]

I was thinking this week about the impact of his signing with the Tar Heels. He helped Dean Smith win his second national title in 1993, beating KU in the Final Four then Michigan in the title game.

What if he had gone to IU, though? I almost guarantee Bobby Knight wins at least one and maybe two more national titles.

The Hoosiers were the #2 seed in the South region in 1991 and got blown out by KU in the Sweet 16. Montross wasn’t a huge contributor in Carolina that year, so who knows if he changes anything there.

The Hoosiers did go to the Final Four in 1992, losing to Duke in the semifinals. That team had Calbert Cheaney, Damon Bailey, Greg Graham, and Alan Henderson, among others. Does Montross put them over the top against the Blue Devils? Let’s say he does, so take away a title from Coach K. Let’s also say they beat Michigan in the championship game, giving Knight his fourth title.

In 1993 Indiana was the #1 seed in the Midwest region, again losing to KU, this time in the elite eight. Surely Montross has a massive impact in that game. So they beat the Jayhawks in St. Louis, roll over the Montross-less Tar Heels in the Final Four, then can they beat Michigan for the second-straight year to go back-to-back? I’m not sure the Fab Five would have let that happen, but you have to at least consider that Bobby Knight was one recruiting decision away from winning four, maybe five, national titles and IU sitting at either six or seven titles overall.

IU fell off quickly after that 1993 team, and other than their crazy run to the 2002 Final Four, have never been close to the Knight Era peak since. Who knows how much of that is different if Eric Montross had decided to stay close to home and play for the Hoosiers.


KU Football

I refused to talk about KU football recruiting all fall simply because I’ve been tricked before. In February of 2017 KU had, briefly, the #1 class of commits in the country, including Ja’Marr Chase. That did not last. The history of KU football is filled with getting commitments from very good players, only to see them flip to a better school in the days leading up to signing day.

But Tuesday KU signed 17 high school players, 14 of which had been committed since before July 4. I’m still in a little bit of shock that so many of those kids, many of whom saw their recruiting rankings rise over their senior years, actually signed with KU.

Among that group was defensive end DJ Warner, who got offers from Michigan and Ohio State late, and had offers from Washington and Texas throughout the process. He is the highest ranked high schooler to ever sign with KU. Dakyus Brinkley, another DE, is also highly rated. And quarterback Isaiah Marshall, the player of the year in Michigan, stuck to his commitment and will sit behind Jalon Daniels for a year before he potentially takes over. There were some other good pieces in the class, which for the time being, is in the top 40 or 50, depending on which evaluation tool you look at. And it’s likely a little better than that. Just as KU’s basketball recruiting will always be a little overrated, KU’s football recruiting will always be a little underrated.

Lance Leipold and his staff have shown they are excellent talent evaluators and can develop those kids once they get into the program. They have a few players in this class who could have an impact pretty early in their careers. The rest will join guys from the two previous classes who have been, slowly, building up the depth of the program that was destroyed when Charlie Weiss was the coach.

I think that roster health is a huge part of evaluating the job that Leipold has done. He turned the team around quickly, getting to a bowl game in year two, winning eight (potentially nine) games in season three, and has the program poised to be a Big 12 title contender in season four if a few key players return. Stadium reconstruction began a week ago, a project that had been discussed and fretted about for decades. And the roster is as deep as it has been since the Mangino era.

KU even lost their offensive coordinator to Penn State and Leipold was able to plug in an OC with a similar system and a proven track record in a matter of days.

I’m not sure there was any doubt but the Leipold era has to get an A+ at this point.

Another sign that KU has ascended: Jayhawk fans are worried about players opting out of the bowl game. First team All Big 12 lineman Dominick Puni did exactly that. We are waiting to hear whether several other key players will not only play in Phoenix, but return to Lawrence next year. Gage Keys announced he was transferring to Auburn this week as well. Three years ago it’s hard to imagine there were any players on the roster good enough to consider either transferring to an SEC school or sit out a potential bowl game.


  1. If you ranked college programs in 1990, before Coach K had won a title, when Dean Smith only had one, and while Kentucky was rebuilding after getting hammered by the NCAA, IU would have to be #1. Kansas? Top ten for sure but that would be based more on history than the current health of the program. How quickly things changed.  ↩

High School Hoops Chronicles, S1V6

A quick, one-game summary to wrap up the first half of the season.

Last night CHS took on HSE, ranked #2 in class 4A. HSE has a junior who is committed to IU and just passed the 1000 career points mark last week. They also have a sophomore who already has multiple D1 offers and was taking visits to big-time schools as a freshman. A very good program from a huge suburban district. The sister school in their district lost in the state championship game last year.

In the JV game, L got a chance to play against one of her new, future travel teammates. However, we didn’t know that girl’s number until we saw a program, so L had no idea they guarded each other for much of the game until I told her on the ride home.

That was a decent matchup, although it was more L guarding H on one end while HSE’s point guards picked up L on the opposite end. H looks like a solid player. She didn’t do anything spectacular but made smart, fundamental plays all night. I wasn’t tracking her super closely, but she scored either 5 or 7.

L clearly took the confidence built playing so many varsity minutes Saturday into this game. She was as aggressive as she’s been all year, but also smartly aggressive. She took 12 total shots. She was 4–9 from 2, 2–3 from 3 and set a new career-high with 14 points. I give the 14 points an asterisk because the official signaled a two-point make on one of her 3’s, but the announcer gave her a three. Since HSE was up by 20 at the time, the scoreboard operator didn’t question it and also gave her three points. I thought the ref was wrong and it was indeed a 3, so I guess it evens out. Glad we didn’t win by one! She grabbed three rebounds and turned it over four times.

She finally realized, “Hey, I can drive people,” and got into the lane often. She looked a lot stronger with the ball than she has all season. Two of her turnovers came when she made drives and passed to teammates who weren’t looking for a pass. She also drew a couple fouls on drives. It wasn’t perfect, but it was exactly what she should be doing.

The only real negative was badly missing her two free throw attempts. I’m not sure what’s going on there. I told her after the game that a few weeks ago her form was perfect, even on her misses. Tuesday her mechanics were a mess and I could tell she was going to miss both before they left her hands.

She sat the entire fourth quarter of an 11-point loss.

The varsity game went exactly as expected. That IU commit went off early, scoring 19 before halftime on her way to 27 for the game. HSE started the game on a 28–0 run. Twenty. Eight. It was brutal. They were clearly much better on both ends of the court, but when CHS did get a good look, you could tell all of our girls were sped up, and missed right at the rim or wide-open jumpers. It made no difference in the outcome, but what ended up being a 35-point loss could have been a more respectable 25 if the girls had settled down just a little.

This game was my first experience with a running clock in a high school game. I didn’t realize that kicks in when the margin gets to 35 points. I’m not sure when HSE first got their lead over that line, but it was well into the 40s in the fourth quarter.

L checked in with 3:30 left in the third quarter and played straight-through until about the 3:00 mark of the fourth quarter. As the clock was running for most of that stretch it went pretty quick.

She got her first varsity assist, driving and kicking for a 3. She air-balled a wide-open 3 for the second-straight varsity game. But she used her confidence with the ball to drive and score when HSE still had three starters in, so that was cool.

Varsity dropped to 5–8, JV sit at 4–9.

After a long, busy, and tough seven weeks the girls finally have a little break. They have light practices today and tomorrow before taking five days off for Christmas. Their next game is the following weekend, when they have split JV-varsity games against big rival Bishop Chatard, where L’s best middle school buddy plays. She is excited not just to play BCHS, or her friend, or because a lot of family plan on coming to those games. Since the JV game is Friday and varsity Saturday, she won’t be on a playing time restriction either night. Hopefully she’s not too keyed up.

After that, varsity has a minimum of nine games left, depending on how the City tournament and sectionals go.

Favorite Songs of 2023

It seems like most Decembers recently I write something like “Well, it wasn’t a great year for music…” as I prepare to share a bunch of songs I both liked and listened to a lot.

Something was different this year, though. According to Last.fm, I listened to about 15% less music in 2023 compared to 2022, and my least music since 2015. I’m not sure what caused that decline, whether it was changes in me/my habits, a quirk in how I was listening, or something specific about this year’s music.

Despite whatever ailed me or music this year, I was still able to collect 23 pretty good songs as my favorites. Three different artists made a big enough impact that I included bonus songs for each.

20 – “Wonder” – En Attendant Ana
This was perhaps the most difficult decision on the list, the dividing point between the chosen few and the excluded. At least four other songs were in strong contention to make the cut. This got the nod thanks to its lovely transition from the gentle, folky opening into a frenzied, Krautrock-influenced ripper.

19 – “ARE YOU GONNA RUN?” – Low Cut Connie
Take equal portions of Jackson Browne, Bruce Springsteen, and Counting Crows, mix thoroughly, and the result is music like this that totally clicks for old dudes like me.

18 – “Western Cum” – Cory Hanson
Best song with the worst title of the year? Not sure anything else even comes close. I’m trying to imagine Casey Kasem introducing this song back in the day. He might have just said, “Here’s Cory Hanson’s latest,” right?

Anyway, Hanson makes the list because, more than anyone, he kept the kick-ass guitar solo alive this year. His album is basically 40 minutes of shredding. One review said Hanson’s motivation for playing loud and long is simple: because it’s fun as fuck. Amen.

17 – “Goodbye to Music” – Flyying Colours
I didn’t know much about this band before 2023. I discovered they’ve made a lot of really good music in recent years. Most of it has a shoegaze influence, a sub-genre that had a big comeback this year. This track was written by guitarist Brodie Brümmer about reckoning with the understanding that his career has taken a toll on his hearing, and the day may come when he isn’t able to listen to or play music again.

16 – “Act Natural” – Margaret Glaspy
I don’t do well when meeting famous people. I generally keep quiet and give them their space since I’m never sure what to say and fear intruding on their free time. It was a monumental upset that I went out of my way to greet Devonté Graham when I ran into him at the Kansas-Texas football game in September.

Perhaps I need to take Glaspy’s advice here. Although her focus is on a potential romantic partner, this song is about trying to keep your cool when you meet someone amazing.

15 – “Easy Out” – THALA
THALA said this began in her home as a quiet ballad about a friend not sharing that they were suffering from a serious illness. When she took it to the studio to record, it transformed into something bigger and much angrier that surprised her. You can hear that shift in the cathartic explosion of the chorus.

14 – “Not Strong Enough” – boygenius
From THE indie album of the year, Phoebe Bridgers, Julien Baker, and Lucy Dacus took everything that was great about their debut EP and made it even greater. Half of the album consists of tracks the trio wrote and sang together. This is the most glorious and perfect of that group, a song elevated by the band’s triumphant rendition on Saturday Night Live. The moment when the refrain “Always an angel, never a god” blends into the closing verse is one of the greatest musical moments of the year.

Bonus track: “True Blue”
Of the “solo” tracks where one artist took the writing/singing lead and the other two supported her, this by Dacus was the best, with its focus on how the strongest relationships last because you don’t get distracted by little disappointments.

13 – “The Way” – Manchester Orchestra
Song meanings can be tricky, since we all slap our own histories onto the music we are listening to. Every time I hear this I think of Depeche Mode songs like “Policy of Truth.” It feels like Andy Hull was diving into some very dark territory when he wrote this. I don’t know if he was singing about failure, the choices that led to it, and the guilt that follows the same way DM did. I also don’t think that interpretation is too far off.

12 – “Lose You” – Bully featuring Soccer Mommy
Bully’s Lucky For YouThe Ringer’s pick for best album of the year – was filled with rockers. This is the rockiest of the lot.

11 – “Need You No More” – Chappaqua Wedding
The second-straight year these kids have landed on my favorites list with a song about embracing the moment.

10 – “Midnight Sun” – RVG
Political tracks often tend to become preachy and judgmental, attempting to guilt the listener to action. This one just lets its anger roar, imploring you to either demand change or get the hell out of the way.

9- “First High” – Nikki Lane
8 – “Radio” – Margo Price feat. Sharon Van Etten
7 – “Outta Time” – Bethany Cosentino
These three songs feel connected, all featuring strong female songwriters playing music heavily indebted to classic radio pop. I hope it’s not redundant or dismissive to place them together like this.

Lane sings about the bittersweet longing for the magic and freedom of our younger days, when every moment was a new first. Price tells the haters to fuck off and preaches self-belief. And Cosentino sings the most glorious song about being alone you’ve ever heard. Every one of them would sound perfect on a crackly car radio with the windows down.

(Warning: there is some brief nudity in the first two videos.)

6 – “Highlands” – Middle Kids
MK front-woman Hannah Joy said a friend of hers described this song as “Yearncore”: uplifting music with lyrics focused on longing or searching for something the narrator doesn’t currently possess. I like that very much. This is just another notch in the band’s long list of wonderful songs.

5 – “Cicada” – Fucked Up
One of the most surprising tracks of the year, a huge departure from FU’s normal, scream-adjacent sound, leaning instead towards melodic power-punk. Mike Haliechuk uses the sounds of summer to celebrate the memory of a friend he lost many years ago.

4 – “Conductors” – The Rural Alberta Advantage
Absolute. Fucking. Banger.

3 – “Little Fires” – The Gaslight Anthem
It is awesome and rare for a terrific band to go away for an extended break and then return making music as strong as their initial peak. After taking nearly a decade off, TGA created a track that can stand next to their 2000s classics.

2 – “Tropic Morning News” – The National
It shocked no one that The National wrote a song about the emotional damage doomscrolling does to people. It was a shock, though, that the song was as upbeat as this.

Bonus: “Deep End (Paul’s In Pieces)”
The National put out two uneven albums this year. Had they edited themselves better – Steven Hyden even took a crack at doing it for them – they could have put out one great album. This was the best song on their second release of 2023, and it lands right in the pocket of what I love about the band.

1 – “The Window” – Ratboys
The title track off my favorite album of the year. Julia Steiner wrote it about watching her grandfather say goodbye to his dying wife through a hospital window during the Covid lockdown. It is massively moving, and Steiner hits the exact right tone in both her vocals and lyrics.

Bonus: “Black Earth, WI” I had this slotted as my favorite song of the year for months, as it was released well before the The Window album. Only the brilliance of that title track knocked this out of the official top spot.

High School Hoops Chronicles, S1V5

Our weekend was pretty boring, other than a bunch of basketball Saturday, so I’m changing things up for this week’s posts. I’ll begin by recapping L’s hoops then get to some Jayhawk Talk later this week.

In our last volume in this series, I detailed a pretty rough week for L. This post will have a decidedly better vibe and includes another milestone in her young career.

Thursday CHS hosted New Palestine. I was a little worried in warmups as NP had a very tall sophomore who was draining 3 after 3. Our only JV girl with size has moved up to varsity full time, and I did not like the prospect of 5’6” freshmen trying to guard a 6’2” sophomore. Fortunately she wasn’t nearly as good when she was being defended as when she was casually throwing in shots during pregame and had no effect on the game.

It ended up being the easiest win of the year to this point. The Irish steadily built a lead throughout the game and were up by 22 going into the fourth quarter. The starters all rested and the backups held on for a 44–28 win.

L was really good. She hit her first shot – a long 2 from just inside the arc – then three of her next four. She reached double figures for the first time, ending with11 points on 5-of–7 shooting, but went just 1–3 from the line. She added 3 rebounds, 2 assists, 3 steals, and ZERO turnovers. She was on the floor for 20 of the first 21 minutes before the fourth quarter.

The varsity game wasn’t much of a contest, either. CHS raced out to an early lead and never let up, winning by 19.

That game had some interesting moments.

We’re not sure why, but two normal CHS starters began the game on the bench. They didn’t check in until late in the first quarter and then only played spotty minutes the rest of the game. One has been injured, the other sick, but they were both acting normal. More on them in a moment.

Between weird lineup rotations, the big early lead, and L only playing three quarters of JV, I wondered if she might get a decent chunk of time in the second half.

So I was shocked when she ran to the scorer’s table a minute into the second quarter. Once she checked in, she didn’t leave the court until halftime. Honest-to-goodness varsity minutes!

She did ok. She grabbed a couple rebounds. She missed an open look from 3 against the NP zone. She hit a layup but was called for shuffling her feet before she took her first dribble. She did have a turnover but otherwise she handled herself really well in her six-plus minutes on the court.

She sat the entire third quarter as two of her freshman JV buddies got to play, then checked in for mop-up during in the final minutes of the game.

There was some other excitement. NP had a girl who was a great athlete but not a great player. She threw her body all over the place trying to make plays. She would make a great move to the basket, then hit the bottom of the rim with her shot.

She crashed into one of our girls on a rebound and got smacked in the face. No foul was called since she initiated the contact, but she went to the floor holding her eye. The officials stopped the game to check on her and seconds later T’ed her up. I figure refs are going to give you some leeway when you get hit in the face, so she must have said something really bad to earn the T. Later she took another smack in the face and played with a tissue hanging out of her nose to stop the bleeding. She had started the game with a big bruise on her face. Tough chick.

Understandably she was a little frustrated and began complaining about every call. She was very lucky she didn’t get another T because of how demonstrative she was a couple times.

Her dad, or at least another NP dad, did get ejected, though. I couldn’t hear what he said but several of their parents had been loud all night. He must have crossed the line as well because a ref stopped the game, pointed at him, and asked the CHS athletic director to escort him out of the gym.

Fun times!

To the injured girl’s credit, I heard her apologizing to one of her coaches for getting T’ed up as they walked to the bus.

Saturday we played at Heritage Christian, a 3A school about five minutes from Cathedral. Ten or so years ago they had one of the best programs in the country, winning multiple state titles and sending girls to places like UConn. They aren’t quite that good anymore, and we knew from basketball friends that their JV was bad.

L got off to a quick start in the JV game, hitting a couple shots and one-of-two free throws early. She also had five steals in the first nine minutes of the game. HC could not dribble and she took advantage.

About three minutes before halftime one of HC’s bigger girls crashed into L and fouled her. She knocked L over, lost her balance, and then landed with all her weight on L’s back. It looked bad. L was down for a minute or so before she could get up and walk off the court crying. She sat out the rest of the half and when the third quarter started remained on the bench. She took some Motrin S offered her but didn’t complain. We were cruising so she watched the entire second half next to the coaches. We ended up winning by 27.

L didn’t sit the entire second half just because she got hurt. Varsity was going to be short two players – those two who were benched to start the game Thursday – and several JV girls were going to have to play up. Both of the missing players are soccer players and chose to play in a soccer showcase rather than high school basketball. I wondered if their minutes were reduced Thursday because of their decision Saturday, but L didn’t think so.

Anyway, the game starts, our best player makes a couple dumb plays, and 90 seconds into the game L checks in. I thought she would play 30 seconds while the coach yelled at our star, then she’d check right back out. But L stayed on the court the rest of the first quarter. She missed an open 3 – seems like she hasn’t hit one in a game in about three weeks – but handled herself well. She showed no ill effects from the earlier crushing.

The highlight of the day for us was when she took an inbounds pass, dribbled up court, weaved around a screen, and went straight to the hoop and laid it in.

Varsity points! In December! In the first quarter of a close game!

I’m a little disappointed they didn’t stop the game to honor the moment, but it was a road game and I’m not in charge of these things.

It was the most confident play she’s made all year. I told her if she can do that in a varsity game, she can do it in a JV game.

Same story in the third quarter. She was the first off the bench and then didn’t leave the court again until the end of the fourth quarter. I didn’t track it as closely as I do in JV, but I’m estimating she played 20–22 minutes. She took four shots, only making that layup. Other than committing one foul, she didn’t check any other columns in the box score. But she looked comfortable, moved the ball, and even brought it up when they double-teamed our best player in the backcourt.

The game was pretty great. We had the ball up one with 19 seconds left and called a timeout. Whatever play our coaches set up we ran wrong, because HC’s best player stole the pass and drove for a potential game-winning layup. This girl is a D1 recruit and somehow missed it. But HC got the rebound, gave her the ball again, and we fouled her with :00.5 left. She made the first, missed the second, and we went to OT.

L had played her five quarters for the day so had to sit and watch the extra time. Which ended up being eight minutes because we were still tied after the first overtime period. Fortunately our girls buckled down in the second extra frame and won by nine. Our best player, a junior who played for HC as a freshman, scored 26. Our center had 18 and 16. Our third regular starter had 17 and 7. It was a fun day.

L was very happy after the game. Everyone was high-fiving her and telling her that she did great. She said her coaches told her she’s improved a lot and earned the minutes she played.

She still has a long way to go, but she’s gone from turning the ball over on her first play of her high school career to getting serious minutes in a varsity win. All within six or seven weeks.

A pretty good week for JV, varsity, and L.

Their reward? The undefeated, #2 4A team in the state tomorrow.

Christmas Playlist

To get your pre-Christmas week started right, I put together a playlist of seldom played, (mostly) non-traditional Christmas songs to counter all the usual stuff you’re hearing at the mall, in your car, on TV, and in your offices/homes. Enjoy roughly 40 minutes of cool Yuletide tunes.

“Main Title” – John Debney
2003. M and I sing the “Bop-bop bop-bop-bop” line at each other often.

“Sleigh Ride” – The Ventures
1965. The entire Ventures Christmas album is a treasure.

“Hey Santa Claus” – The Moonglows
1953. The background music for the Christmas Vacation shopping scene, right before Clark goes blousing, err, browsing.

“We Wish You A Merry Christmas” – Booker T. & the M.G.’s
1966. Right in their classic Venn diagram of soul, jazz, and easy listening.

“Back Door Santa” – Clarence Carter.
1969. I think you will recognize the horn lines from this song.

“The Nutcracker Suite” – Les Brown and His Band of Renown
The original version of this was from the late Fifties, this was re-mastered in 1996.

“Everyday Will Be Like A Holiday” – William Bell
1967. An Irish magazine called this the greatest Christmas song ever. That may be overstating things a little, but it is pretty great, and wildly unappreciated. I’m not sure I’ve ever heard it on the radio/SiriusXM.

“Let’s Get It Together This Christmas” – The Harvey Averne Band
1971. “Up With People” for Christmas? If you know anything about music history you should be able to pretty easily identify this song as coming from somewhere between 1968 and 1972.

“Don’t Believe in Christmas” – The Sonics
1965. This song is amazing and needs to be at least a minute longer.

“A Child’s Christmas In Wales” – John Cale
Welsh poet Dylan Thomas wrote a piece with this title in 1952. Cale used it as inspiration for this 1973 track.

“Mr. Santa Claus” – Nathaniel Mayer
1962. Definitely not your traditional Christmas song.

“White Christmas” – Charlie Parker
As with many jazz albums, it’s tough to pin down the date of this original recording. I would guess 1948 based on some light research. This version was released in 1994.

“Joy To The World” – The Staple Singers
1962. Just beautiful. Mavis would sing the theme for Christmas Vacation 27 years later.

Friday Playlist – Bests Of

In preparation for next week’s unveiling of my Favorite Songs of 2023, a review of my past favorites. This playlist begins with 2004 and includes co-favorite Songs of the Year for 2017 and 2022.

Also below are links to my annual Favorite Songs posts. 2009’s list has been, somehow, lost to time. 2011 was the year I was stupidly using Squarespace and lost six months of posts when I left that platform. And in 2012, 2013, and 2014 I revealed the songs individually, which was dumb. Someone should have told me.

The Year In Music (2004)
Top Ten Songs Of 2005
Top 20 Songs of 2006, 11-20
Top Songs Of 2006, 10-6
Top Songs of 2006, 5-1
Favorite Songs Of 2007
Favorite Songs Of 2008
Best Music Of 2010, Part 1
Best Music Of 2010, Part 2
Best Music Of 2010, Part 3
December 2012
Favorite Songs of 2013, 20-11 Remainder of 2013 were individual posts. Seriously, what was I thinking?
December 2014
Favorite Songs of 2015
33 Favorite Songs of 2016
26 Favorite Songs of 2017
Favorite Songs of 2018
Favorite Songs of 2019
Favorite Songs of 2020
Favorite Songs of 2021
Favorite Songs of 2022

Wednesday Notes

A good, old fashioned notes dump like the old days.


CHS Lockdown

There was a lockdown for about an hour at Cathedral yesterday. Apparently someone called 911 claiming to be inside the school with a gun. About a million cops showed up and no person with a gun was ever found. We live in wonderful times, friends.

Our girls seemed more annoyed that they had to stay and finish the day after the all-clear than worried/scared by the threat.


Visitor/College Break

M’s roommate from UC came for a quick visit Monday and Tuesday. She lives in Toledo and M visited her last summer for a weekend. Because of her holiday schedule she was only able to come down for about 24 hours. But M showed her around our area and introduced her to a few high school friends, although they mostly hung around with other UC kids.

A funny thing about M’s friend group at school is one of her best guy friends grew up less than a mile from our house. He went to the rival high school and never knew each other, but they had mutual friends. The past several days their local group has been gathering either at his house or ours.

It was a little weird getting M home last week. My first thought was, “OK, it’s Christmas break!” Then I realized her sister had almost THREE full weeks of class left before they were done for the semester. M did a lot of sitting around that first week, but most of her friends are back in town now and her social activity has started to pick back up. She’s also done some babysitting and has several days blocked off to watch either nephews or other kids between now and her return to school next month.


Holidays

M’s arrival has messed up my mind regarding the holidays in more ways than one. I was a little surprised to realize Monday we were two weeks from Christmas. The first half of the Christmas season seems to have raced by. I think a lot of that is because of L’s game schedule, which has kept us very busy the past two weeks.

Anyway, it was a bit of an alarm to make sure I am focused over the next two weeks to get all my holiday movies and shows knocked out. I haven’t watched Elf or Christmas Vacation nearly enough (one full time each, several partial viewings thrown in as well).


Sports Illustrated

Man, what a mess. An American icon that has been crumbling for years likely had its final downfall a week ago when it was discovered that the magazine was using AI to both write articles and labelling those articles with AI-generated writer names and headshots.

SI was an integral part of my childhood, and then remained essential deep into adulthood. The arrival of each week’s new volume on Thursday was one of the biggest moments of your kid week. My copy remained in the folder I carried to class until it was dog-eared and nearly memorized, not replaced until the next one came.

Magazines everywhere are dying. It feels like SI could have survived as it was generally more of a high-level view of sports, one which can still be relevant in the Internet age. The magazine, and its publishers, have made about a million bad choices in the past 20 years, though, and it was already an insignificant blip on the sports journalism map before this scandal.

And then they gave the Sportsman of the Year award to Deion Sanders, which seems absolutely asinine on every level. Given how ultra-commercial his whole deal is, my first thought was that he, or his publicists, paid for the honor. Or exchanged it for access. Something classic SI would not have engaged in.

Should he have been in the issue somewhere? Absolutely. But whatever waves he made this year were more because of the work his handlers did to create his story and image than anything he actually did. Many people had a bigger impact on the sports world than Deion.

As one college football expert said recently on a podcast, Deion deserves immense credit for what he’s already done at CU. But the fact is that team got worse each week of the season, there was all kinds of internal turmoil in the program, and Deion proved that if he really wants to deliver on all the promises he’s made, he has a lot to learn about coaching and running a power conference program. That expert has confidence that Deion is capable of making those jumps. But you can’t give a student an A+ for a project that was turned in incomplete missing required elements.


Memorial Stadium

The first phase of demolition at KU’s Memorial Stadium started on Monday. I loved all the people who made comments long the lines of “It was a dump, I watched a ton of bad football there, but I also have a lot of great memories there.” Very true.

In my first game there in 1980 I saw Dan Marino. I was there for the Tony Sands game. For Monte Cozzens. For Eric Vann’s 99-yard touchdown run.[1] Two wins over Oklahoma. I also sat through ice storms, bitter cold, blazing heat, and gusty winds while the Jayhawks were getting housed by Nebraska, OU, and others. When I lived in Lawrence, I was there damn near every home game.

The rumors last week that KU is looking to play some of their home games at Arrowhead in Kansas City next year are interesting. I think they realize the team has a chance to be even better next year, and don’t want to play games in front of 20,000 in a stadium that is under active renovation. Sell a bunch more tickets to bring more money in. Maybe rope in some new fans, or re-energize KC-area fans who stopped making the drive to Lawrence at some point during the Lost Decade. And potentially get the stadium renovations in Lawrence done faster than expected and be ready for the 2025 season. I don’t think you move all the games to Arrowhead, but it makes sense to play a few of them there if the Chiefs are open to the idea.


Andre Braugher

Such sad news that Andre Braugher has died. What an amazing career. His two biggest roles, as Frank Pembleton on Homicide and Raymond Holt on Brooklyn Nine-Nine, were two wildly different characters. It was shocking to see the same actor who portrayed the hyper-intense Pembleton make amazing comedy as Holt. He made it work.


  1. Never understood why these announcers called it a 98-yard run.  ↩

High School Hoops Chronicles, S1V4

A kind of bizarre and not very successful week for L on the court, with one very notable exception.

Tuesday CHS played Zionsville, where a travel teammate goes to school. L came out firing early, hoisting six 3-pointers in the first half. She missed them all, but was fouled on one and hit two-of-three free throws. She also had 2 rebounds, an assist, three steals, and no turnovers in the first half.

However, she did not play at all in the second half. She later told us that late in the first half and again in the locker room at halftime, she nearly passed out. The trainer did a check on her, and everything was fine, but decided it was safest to keep her off the court.

Not sure if it was just low blood sugar, a hint of a bug, or something else. She said once whatever it was passed she felt fine. But she only played half the game, the first time this season she’s played less than 25 minutes. CHS lost by four. L would have dressed for varsity again had she been ok to play.

Thursday they took on Guerin, the Catholic school in Hamilton County, where we used to live. L was excited about this game because Guerin has a lot of girls she played against in CYO, most of their good freshmen were playing on the varsity team, and we had heard their JV was bad.

So much for all of that. L had one of her worst games of the year. She was 0–6 from the field (0–3 on 3’s) and did not score. She had four more turnovers. She did play the whole game. Well, all but two minutes. As usual we couldn’t get any offense going and dropped the game by five.

L was involved in a key moment in the game. We were down by just two with under a minute to play when she drove, shot, and drew a foul. The shot missed but she was going to the line with a chance to tie.

Only the referees claimed the contact was before the shot. Girls from both teams had already lined up along the lane and L was at the free throw line waiting for the ball. It seems like everyone but the ref knew that L got fouled in the air. No idea what that dude was looking at. Naturally we didn’t score on off the inbounds and that was kind of the game.

So that game sucked all around.

However…

L again dressed for the varsity game, which was a blowout as CHS was up big the entire second half. I wondered if the benches would get cleared. Sure enough, with just under 2:00 left the Guerin coach sent in her reserves. The CHS coach followed a moment later. L ran to the scorer’s table to check into her first varsity game with a big grin on her face.

Amazingly, she played better than in the JV game. And by that I mean she didn’t do anything negative. She grabbed a rebound. She came close to an assist and had an unofficial hockey assist on another basket. High school is just like college: when the benchwarmers score, the starters go nuts. That was fun. Those 99 seconds seemed to outweigh L’s poor performance in the JV game, as she was super happy afterward.

Saturday we traveled about 45 minutes to Eastern Hancock, the #2 ranked 2A team in the state. We learned the day before that EH was dealing with a lot of injuries and had requested that the JV game only be two quarters.[1] L was, again, pumped, because she figured they were bad and this might be the chance to get another (half) win.

EH’s JV had five girls. Two of them were solid, the other three sucked. Yet our girls still couldn’t run competent offense. It was more of the same: causally passing the ball around without ever really looking to score. Still, we had a six-point lead with about three minutes to play when L had an open look for three. While her shot was in the air I thought, “If she makes this, the game is over.” She missed. The game was not, in fact, over. Nice freaking jinx, dad.

EH threw a press at us after their next make. Our standard press breaker is to in-bound to L, she probes the defense, then if she sees a trap coming she’ll dump the ball to another girl who attacks up the side and reverses to L in the middle if she’s trapped. This has worked very well all year. Saturday the other girl dribbled into a triple team on three straight possessions and lost the ball each time, all turning into EH buckets. That morphed into a 13–3 run to end the half-game, and another (half) loss for the Irish.

L was kind of bad again. 0–4 (0–2) from the field. 1–2 from the line. Two rebounds, an assist, a steal, and four turnovers. Turnovers have been a problem lately. Sometimes she makes shitty passes. Sometimes she isn’t strong enough with the ball. Sometimes she makes a good pass and her teammates don’t catch it. It’s really an all three phases thing right now, and she needs to find a way to be better with the ball.

We could tell she was straight-up pissed after the game. Fortunately she dressed for varsity so we didn’t have to deal with her for a bit.

I got roped into keeping the book for the varsity game, which ended up being a very good one. EH has five seniors back from a team that lost in semi-state last year. They added an amazing freshman, who scored 21. Both teams had six-point leads at one point. One of L’s buddies who is playing up from JV scored a career-high 12. The game was tied at 50 with under a minute left when that EH freshman hit a 3 to break the tie and EH won by three. The EH players and fans were very excited to beat a class 4A team, even if the Irish are just 3–7. For what it’s worth, the varsity has played the 12th toughest schedule in the state, across all classes.

Three games, three losses, and L scored 3 total points. I guess she actually just played two games. Aside from getting into the varsity game Thursday, it was not a great week for her. JV is now 2–8. The good program news is the freshman team is undefeated. We asked L if she would rather play with them. She was very much against that idea.


  1. I got the impression that EH tried to cancel and our coach talked them into the half game since we already had the big bus reserved and both teams were making the trip.  ↩
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