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Reaching For The Stars, Vol. 109

Chart Week: January 7, 1978
Song: “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue” – Crystal Gayle
Chart Position: #16, 22nd week on the chart. Peaked at #2 for three weeks in November/December 1977.

What is the first American Top 40 show I remember listening to? If you know me, you understand that I wish I could identify that broadcast to give it the appropriate commemorative post. My first vivid memories of hearing Casey’s voice for which I can clearly identify the year are from 1978. Mostly in the spring, after my parents separated for the first time, and my mom and I moved in with a friend of hers for a few months until we got our own apartment.

However, there are murkier memories from earlier that year in which I remember specific songs, but can’t be sure whether I recall hearing Casey introduce them on his program.

When I listened to this countdown there was a flood of recollections from this moment in my life. Specifically of a big snowstorm that hit southeast Missouri in January 1978, wiping out several days of school. Snow days are always awesome, but this time the Star Wars action figures that my parents got me for Christmas, which famously had to be shipped to kids all over the country weeks after the holiday, arrived the day before this bonus break. I remember sitting in my room playing with the most prized possessions I had owned to that point in my young life while we were stuck inside, the biggest hits of the day playing on the very cool, European clock radio my aunt and uncle had sent me from Germany.[1]

I’m guessing that storm came a little later in January than this countdown aired. So let’s say that sometime in the opening month of 1978 was the first time my brain registers me listening to Casey countdown the 40 hottest records in the country.

What entries sparked memories of that snowy month? Lynyrd Skynyrd’s “What’s Your Name,” “Sometimes When We Touch” by Dan Hill, “I Go Crazy” by Paul Davis, ELO’s “Turn to Stone,” “Just the Way You Are,” by Billy Joel, “We Are the Champions/We Will Rock You,” by Queen, and Styx’s “Come Sail Away.” I can hear them coming out of the speaker of that little radio as the sun reflecting off the piled up snow lit up my room. I can even feel the cold radiating off the window.

The tune that stuck out the most was Crystal Gayle’s biggest pop hit, “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue,” which spent three weeks at #2 in late 1977.[2] I think it registered the most because my dad loved it, and, under the tree for him on Christmas morning was a copy of Gayle’s We Must Believe In Magic album. I remember that LP vividly for two reasons. First was Gayle’s striking appearance. She was a dazzlingly attractive woman. I might have been just six, but I wasn’t too young to sneak peaks at her pictures on the album sleeve when my parents weren’t looking. I’m sure the photos were super wholesome, but it felt like I was getting away with something when I sat in the corner next to our record player and stared at them. Second, we had no country music in our house. Nothing even close. So, even as a wee youngster, I was surprised by the addition of an album by a “country star” to the family album collection.[3]

I think my dad, and tons of other people, liked it because it doesn’t sound country at all. It has a more jazzy, adult contemporary vibe. There’s just a hint of swing to it, as well, the gentlest cocktail hour nudge. Unlike Dolly Parton, who was at #5 this week with her delightful “Here You Come Again,” Gayle sang without any twang. “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue” certainly leans more towards cheesy, country club cotillion schmaltz than Hee Haw honky tonk.

That lack of true country character is remarkable because of Gayle’s geographic origins and sibling connection. She was born in Paintsville, KY, in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains. You would expect her voice to drip of that hilly country, just like her oldest sister, Loretta Lynn. There was no mistaking where Lynn was from. On this song, at least, Gayle could just as easily have been from Southern California or New York as deep in the mining country of Kentucky. Some of that is explained by her family moving to Wabash, IN when she was four. Compared to rural Kentucky, Wabash was much more urban, which led to Gayle listening to all kinds of music other than country. And, apparently, softening her accent.

Casey referenced that biological link as he introduced “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue” this week. He noted that despite her reputation as one of THE queens of country music, Loretta Lynn had never had the kind of Top 40 success her baby sister was having. For years there were rumors the sisters didn’t get along because of professional jealousy. They both tried to quash that talk, but for some reason it came to define their relationship in the music press. You wonder if it started with relatively innocent comments like Casey’s. Or if it’s just because people suck.

Gayle would crack the pop top 20 a couple more times in the Seventies as a solo artist, then hit #7 with the Eddie Rabbit on the duet “You and I” in 1982. She was a monster in the Nashville world, though. She hit #1 a staggering 18 times on the country chart, with 16 other singles reaching the top 10. That’s a hall of fame career. I haven’t listened to any of those tracks, so I don’t know if she sounded more traditionally country on them, or if her voice always landed in that sweet range where no genre could entirely claim it.

I don’t love this song, but I don’t hate it, either. While lacking any regional identifiers, her voice is very nice. Gayle does an effective job portraying her sadness about a romance that is ending, but adds a subtle smokiness that should make her man want to come running back to her. Legend has it that it features the first studio take she recorded of “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue.” She took a couple more cracks at the tune, but the producer told her to stop, as her initial effort could not be topped. She doesn’t show off a huge range, but stays in a pocket where every note is perfect. To bad the rest of the track kind of stinks. But a pretty face and a pretty voice can go a long way. Especially when you are six. 6/10


  1. I’m not sure if this storm was connected to the Great Blizzard of 1978, which didn’t seem to hit Missouri. Some internet digging suggests that that winter was one of the snowiest in Missouri history, so it could have been any time in January/early February. Maybe it was this storm. I do remember we had to go to school twice on Saturday, for half days, to help make up the time we missed. I also found that the area we lived in got over two feet of snow in one storm a year later. I have absolutely no memory of that. Weird.  ↩

  2. It was stuck behind Debbie Boone’s “You Light Up My Life,” one of the biggest songs in chart history. Coincidentally “YLUML” it is also one of the worst songs in chart history.  ↩

  3. I received the Star Wars soundtrack album that Christmas, my first non-kid album. I was super bummed that it only contained the John Williams score to the movie and not Meko’s disco-flavored theme that had topped the Hot 100 that fall.  ↩

Weekend Notes

Friday I had an appointment to get C’s iPad looked at. After confirming it needed a new battery, the guy helping me said the replacement would take about a week to arrive, so it would probably be “next Monday.” He paused, we looked at each other for a moment, and then we both started laughing. We both thought Friday was Monday because of the New Year’s holiday. Time and space gets freaky over the holidays!

C and L were supposed to go back to school today, although CHS begins the calendar year with J-Term and this week was not going to be a return to serious classwork. Until the school, like most in central Indiana, called off Monday classes early Sunday evening because of our big snow storm. As I begin this Monday morning, we are sitting on about 6” of snow in our part of town, with another wave blowing through that is expected to add one more inch or so. Worse, the winds are kicking up even any roads that have been plowed will likely get worse over the next few hours. S’s office did not close and she had to go in at the normal time. She arrived safely but said the roads are horrible. I’m not 100% certain our snowblower is functional, so we’ll see how much effort I have to put into clearing the driveway later this morning.

**Update: I measured 8″ of snow in our driveway before I began clearing it. One more squall passed through mid-morning and added another inch. As expected, the snowblower did not cooperate so I had to do it by hand. It took over three total hours, with a little help from L at the end. I am very sore and tired.**

It’s not quite our 2014 snowstorm – that one shut the city down for days and wiped out a whole week of school – but it’s good enough for the girls, who get to sleep in one more day.

We did have a little mishap in the storm. We let C drive to work Sunday, thinking she would be home before the roads got bad. Turns out we miscalculated by about an hour. On her way home she slid through a turn and hit a curb, popping a tire. Luckily she was right next to a gas station and was able to pull into the parking lot and wait for us to come change the tire for her. Given the age of the tire, that probably means we get to buy her a new, full set. Happy New Year!

Some more notes from New Year’s week.


NYE

The girls all had plans to ring in 2025 with friends. M traveled to Columbus, OH to hang out with some sorority pals for a couple days. She had a good time and traveled back-and-forth safely. She has one more week at home before UC classes resume next week.

C got together with her friend group. Seems like they had fun. L was supposed to do the same with a smaller group but started feeling bad Tuesday afternoon and ended up staying in her room all night. C came home Wendesday morning feeling bad, an illness that got worse Thursday. She’s been sick for the better part of a month and Dr. Mom finally called in the antibiotic troops to get her cleared up before the second semester begins. The drugs seem to be working so hopefully she starts ’25 healthier than she ended ’24.

As tends to happen, S was in bed well before midnight and I stayed up until just after the ball dropped. I don’t have any great fondness for New Year’s Eve, but I do like to see the calendar officially flip over to the next year and then sit around for a few minutes to make sure civilization doesn’t start breaking down because of some computer bug or whatever.


Thursday

Thursday was a big day for L. First thing in the morning she went back to sports medicine for a check-up on her foot. She was officially cleared to return to practice, although she’s supposed to take it easy and focus on rehab exercises for the time being. She was back at practice Friday and Saturday, the coaches letting her play in about 50% of the reps. There is still some foot pain, so we’re a little concerned that taking six weeks off did not resolve the issue. Unfortunately, she will not have enough practices to be cleared to play Wednesday night, so her first potential game will be in the City tournament next week.

Immediately after she got back from sports medicine I took her to the BMV where she got her driver’s license. She had passed her driving test nearly three months ago and just needed to wait the 90 days after her birthday to be eligible for her license. We got there as soon as they opened and were out in about 15 minutes. She’s driven herself to practice twice, along with going to a boys basketball game Saturday and run a few errands on her own. It would be nice if my days driving her to practice were over but as she and C share a car, those glory days won’t arrive until next year.

Sunday morning S and I took down all the Christmas decorations and got the house cleaned up. It’s always a little weird and a touch sad to be confronted with a “naked” living room after five weeks of having the tree, lights, and other decorations warm the space. Our house was still aglow last night, but this time because of street and house lights reflecting off the snow pack outside. Seriously, I woke a couple times thinking someone was shining a light into our bedroom it was so bright.


Colts

A mediocre season came to an appropriately mediocre ending with an overtime win over Jacksonville in front of a diminished but surly crowd. Tons of the people who bothered to show up left in the second half as the roads began to slicken and the stands were mostly empty as the game went to the extra frame. They would have been better served playing the game at one of the small, college stadiums in town. Then they could have been out in the elements, too! Kind of a shame that despite this massive snowstorm spreading across the country, not a single NFL game was affected by it because the Chiefs were in Denver, the Colts play in a dome, and the Bengals played Saturday night in Pittsburgh.

Owner Jim Irsay wasted no time in saying that GM Chris Ballard and coach Shane Steichen would return for the 2025 season, a decision that pleased zero Colts fans. Get excited for another year on the mediocre treadmill!


Pacers

Hey, they might actually be playing good ball! They climbed back to .500 with a win Saturday. Throw out the disaster loss in Boston right after Christmas, an L they got revenge for two nights later, and they’ve generally played pretty well for about three weeks now. Tyrese Haliburton’s highs have been higher, his lows not as low. Andrew Nembhard returning seems to have steadied the entire roster. They have back-to-backs with Cleveland in a week, which should go a long way to showing how legit they are.


KU Hoops

Talk about wild mood swings! Last week had such a wide variance I’ll hold off my thoughts until tomorrow.

Sunday Links

What better time than a snowy Sunday to finally share the links I’ve been stacking up over the past month or so.


After reading a 007 novel recently, I wondered why we haven’t heard a timeline for when the movie franchise will launch its post-Daniel Craig era. Turns out there is a lot of drama between the long-time producer of the series and Amazon, who now own the rights to it.

According to WSJ, an Amazon Studios exec’s description of Bond as “content” in an early meeting was like a “death knell” to Broccoli. She has since referred to the folks at Amazon as “fucking idiots” to friends and expressed deep concerns about the e-commerce company being the right fit for Bond.

Looks like we’ll have to keep waiting.

Next James Bond Movie on Hold as Producer Clashes with Amazon


We don’t currently have Max, so I haven’t been able to watch the well-reviewed Yacht Rock series. Whether you’ve seen it or not, you can dive into some of the details of the genre here.

The (Slightly Abridged) Yacht Rock Dictionary


Since Shrinking wrapped up season two a couple weeks back, I was finally able to read this good piece about the man behind it, Bad Monkey, Ted Lasso, and other great TV shows.

Bill Lawrence Has Conquered Apple TV+


For decades I’ve said if I ever won the lottery – I’m talking hundreds of millions here, not small change – my dream would be to own a radio station. Even today, when radio is almost a niche format, I think it would be super cool to have my own station that played music currated independently by local DJs. So it makes me sad that Stephen King has decided to unload the three radio stations he owned for years. I doubt they played cutting-edge music, but it is cool that folks in Maine had locally-owned stations that didn’t rely on an algorithm cooked up in LA and played the same 15 songs on repeat endlessly (I assume his stations weren’t operated that way).

Stephen King Announces Closure of His Maine Radio Stations

Update Apparently at least one of his stations has found a new ownership group that promises not to alter its format.


I had no idea there was this comedic “mystery” behind one of the greatest SNL sketches ever.

Yang shared that “People tense up at the table when they see it’s just your piece, but we were like, ‘You know who did it incredibly well was Will.’ And then we read ‘More Cowbell.’”

Will Ferrell blows mystery of non-existent “More Cowbell” co-writer wide open


And I thought it was just because I was getting old and my eyes getting worse that oncoming headlights bother me so much.

“As usual, we’re trying to play catch-up and figure out how we’re going to address the problems that have been created by this thing that we thought was a solution.”

Asleep at the Wheel in the Headlight Brightness Wars


The great Rodger Sherman on one of the most unique and fun plays in NFL history.

It happened. IT HAPPENED. It really happened! It’s a slightly-before-Christmas football miracle!

Everything you need to know about the fair catch kick, football’s vestigial tailbone


Tom Whitwell’s annual, super enjoyable, list of things he learned.

52 things I learned in 2024

Many fun things in there, but my favorite this: Why Old Sports Photos Often Have a Blue Haze, which was a reminder that a Jayhawk is responsible for some of the greatest sports pictures ever taken. Photographer Rich Clarkson Has Covered the Final Four for 60 Straight Years

And a couple more similar lists:

Your body carries ~literal pieces of your mom~—and maybe your grandmother, siblings, aunts, and uncles.

77 Facts That Blew Our Minds In 2024

The producers of Mork and Mindy needed censors who spoke four languages to catch all the swear words Robin Williams tried to sneak in.

52 Things I Learned in 2024


Finally, surfer Alessandro Slebir may have shattered the record for biggest wave ever surfed. Crazy photo.

Reader’s Notebook, 1/2/25

I completed my final book of 2024 late Saturday/early Sunday as I was battling some insomnia. It was my 62nd book of the year, making 2024 one of my best reading years ever.[1] I read seven books in two different months, six books in three separate months, and never fewer than three books in a 30/31-day stretch. Pretty good work. Now I get to start all over again.


The Siege – Ben MacIntyre
I’ve read two of MacIntyre’s books before, and heard about this latest one via a couple different podcasts. It relates the 1980 takeover of the Iranian embassy in London by Arab terrorists. Our generation remembers the Iranians occupying the US embassy in Tehran well, but I did not remember this event, which lasted for six days that spring.

MacIntyre spoke to many of the surviving hostages, police and military, and government officials involved in the event, which allowed him to piece together a highly detailed, very British accounting of every moment of the crisis, from before the terrorists – who had the stated goal of autonomy for an Arab-majority province in Iran – entered the embassy to the quick but problematic assault by British special forces to free the hostages.

It is a fascinating tale not just for the shady motivations of the terrorists, more on that in a moment, but for how it was one of the first public uses of British SAS forces. The unit had existed since World War II – as one of MacIntyre’s other books outlines – but was barely known to the British public until they stormed the embassy. Quite different from America, where our special forces have always been celebrated as both the elite of the elite and as a warning to forces that want to do us harm.

Now to the terrorists. While most of the force were Arab Iranians who truly sought the autonomy back home they believed the Islamic government had promised them when they supported the 1979 revolution, the power behind them was much less narrowly focused. The organization, training, and money all came from Iraq, leading directly to Saddam Hussein and the super terrorist Abu Nidal. Saddam wanted to embarrass and destabilize the new Shiite government in Iran, hoping to increase his own power in the region. This disastrous event in London was one of the direct causes of the horrific Iran-Iraq war, which lasted for eight years. That, in turn, led to the Iraqi invasion of Kuwait in 1990, as Iraq wanted to take possession of Kuwait’s oil reserves to stabilize its economy after the Iran war. Which led to US troops being stationed in Saudi Arabia before liberating Kuwait. The presence of which was one of Osama Bin Laden’s motivations for declaring a holy war against the US. And you know what happened from there.

Anyway, a highly interesting read about a seemingly unimportant blip in history – to most Americans – that ended up being massively impactful on all of our lives.


There Was Nothing You Could Do – Steven Hyden
I intentionally saved this for the end of the year. What better way to wrap up the 40th anniversary of the greatest year in pop music history than with a book about one of that year’s biggest albums?

In Hyden’s latest, he takes on Bruce Springsteen’s Born In The USA, the biggest, most popular, and perhaps most impactful album of The Boss’ career. However, this is not just an assessment/break down of the album itself. Hyden takes a long look at where Springsteen was when he recorded the album, how he was already struggling with the weight of success and popularity. How the E. Street Band was already beginning to fracture ever-so-slightly. How Springsteen took a deliberate step back on Nebraska. How, despite their huge differences in sound, how many of the songs on Born In The USA were recorded around the same time as Nebraska was. Biggest of all, Hyden examines what the USA cycle did to Bruce and how he changed in the years after, from pulling back further from the pop mainstream to separating from the E. Street Band to becoming more overtly political.

Bruce Springsteen is one of the most important and influential artists of the rock era. Because of that, whether you like him or not, his story is important. And the most important part of his story is the point where he both embraced popularity and decided that wasn’t for him.


Favorite Books of 2024

I’ve written about every book I read this year already, so no need for blurbs about my favorites. Here’s a list of the ones that I enjoyed the most. Not all of these were new releases.

The Peacock and The Sparrow – I.S. Berry
Calico – Lee Goldberg
Brooklyn Crime Novel – Jonathan Lethem
The Family Chao – Lan Samantha Chang
Chain Gang All-Stars – Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah
The Wager – David Grann
Carrie Soto Is Back – Taylor Jenkins Reid
Let’s Go (So We Can Get Back) – Jeff Tweedy
Middle of the Night – Riley Sager
Nuclear War – Annie Jacobsen


  1. Included in that total were two photo books that were more pictures than text.  ↩

December Media

Holiday Shit

Elf
Christmas Vacation
A Christmas Story
Die Hard
Assorted SNL holiday sketches
A’s all around.

Band Aid – The Making Of The Original ’Do They Know It’s Christmas?’
Not a true documentary but rather a collection of the raw film shot on November 25, 1984, the day the vocals were recorded for this holiday classic. A remarkable view of a moment in time that became eternal.

A

Holiday Baking Championship
Surprise winner! After looking like a total doofus the first couple weeks, home baker Steven came out of nowhere to capture the title. Thanks to both the way the calendar fell and our new DVR limitations, this was the earliest I’ve ever finished the show, a full week before Christmas.

A-

Die Hard (1988): 20 Things You Never Knew!
Best of the Die Hard OBSESSION | Brooklyn Nine-Nine
Topical.

Giving away my stolen christmas tree
Beau Miles holiday bullshit!

How A Fake Band Made A Christmas Classic – The History of Christmas Wrapping by The Waitresses
Wonderful summary of the history of a wonderful song.


Movies, Shows, etc

Shrinking, season two
A terrific second season puts this in the running for best show on TV. It continued to avoid the trap so many shows in its vein fall into: being too cute and satisfied with itself. Each week had many deep, genuine laughs. Most episodes had touching moments. A couple were incredibly moving. This was a show we looked forward to each week and were seldom disappointed by. It is an A++ cast that share fantastic writing with us. Repeating something I’ll say below about another show: the world would be a better place if we had more programs like this.

A

St. Denis Medical
A couple more new episodes this month. I think it’s still finding its way, but remains solid. As I don’t watch any other sitcoms on regular TV, I have to assume that they are all garbage based on how many good reviews St. Denis receives. I see promise, I just don’t think it’s in the league of the shows that came before it yet (The Good Place, The Office, Parks & Recreation, etc.)

B+

A Man On The Inside
Goddammit, those sons of bitches Michael Schur and Ted Danson have done it again!!! An utterly delightful show. I’m convinced if we had more people with the emotional intelligence of Schur making TV and movies and music, this country would not be the hateful mess that it is. Alas…

This show will make you laugh a lot. It will give you the feels. It will probably make you cry. It is so full of heart and life. It shines a light on a part of our world – retirement communities – that most of us spend no time thinking about until we have to. Brilliant TV. Fortunately it looks like there will be a season two. Oh, and just another reminder that Danson is the greatest comedic actor in TV history.

A+

Hit Man
I think I was confusing this with another movie – The Fall Guy probably – with a brief title that looked kind of dumb but actually got decent reviews. This was not that. Every element felt like a 75% effort: the scenes that were supposed to be funny only got ¾ of the way there. Same for the suspensful scenes. Same for the sexy scenes. Script could have used some zhooshing.

C+

Extraction 2
Like the first, an almost perfect action movie. Checks in under two hours. Minimal plot/mission, so the writers don’t have to get too cute. Then roughly 80% of it is people trying to shoot/blow each other up. Bonus for bringing in Idris Elba and setting us up for another edition in a year or so.

B+

David Letterman | The GQ Video Cover Interview
Dave is an American treasure.

Swingers
How long has it been since I watched this, in full? Twenty-ish years, I bet. It is one of those movies that faded away after I got married and had kids, as it speaks to a very different part of my life. Sure, I referenced it plenty, but even those quotes faded in time. YouTube randomly spit out an interview with Jon Favreau from when the movie was first released, which got me thinking I should watch again. I couldn’t find it on any streaming platforms we pay for so I grabbed the DVD at the library. It was one of those really poor library DVDs that seems like it was produced overseas from a bad copy. Still, it was fun to revisit Mikey, Trent, Sue, Rob, and Charles. It brought back a lot of memories from my “single days,” as I once called them to S’s great laughter.

There are so many elements that make this movie great – even with the allowance for it being nearly 30 years old and a bit out-of-date – but what stuck out to me in this viewing was how it never runs out of steam. The final 15 minutes are just as funny and well-written as the first 15.

A

Top Gun: Maverick
Oceans Eleven
The Bounty Hunter
A collection of movies we watched as a family with our Christmas guests.
Maverick remains the perfect, modern action flick. I could watch Oceans 1000 times and never get sick of it. The Bounty Hunter? Well, it was a random pick from the Netflix menu screen. Thin story, some bad acting, but it does have In Her Prime Jennifer Anniston running around for 90 minutes in a tight tank top, short skirt, and very high heels. She knew how to give the fans what they wanted.

A, A, C

English Teacher
Ahh, the series that has a limited number of episodes (eight) that are short enough (all in the 21–24 minute range) that you can knock the whole thing out in a few hours. Even better that this is super funny. That said, I don’t think this is a universal show. The humor is often dark and cutting. The main character has lots of flaws so you aren’t necessarily pulling for him. There’s a lot of culture wars content, and it definitely leans one way, which will annoy 30–40% of its potential audience. But I really enjoyed it, especially the first 3–4 episodes which were a little funnier than the back half.

B+


Shorts, YouTubes, etc

Dead on Arrival: The Soyuz 11 Disaster
Scary space shit.

Jon Favreau interview on “Swingers” (1996)
Ron Livingston on Swingers
Vince Vaughn Breaks Down His Most Iconic Characters
Swingers content.

Sacha Baron Cohen Breaks Down His Most Iconic Characters
The Vaughn entry above was good. This one was incredible.

Why the B–52 is outliving newer bombers
It’s absolutely wild that not only are B–52s still operational, the ones currently in service will have nearly 90 years of service logged when they are finally expected to be retired.

Dramatic low level flying bomber footage (1943)
Kind of cool.

The Oberg Color Film Footage of Pearl Harbor – December 7, 1941
This doesn’t quite live up to expectations, but still a fascinating time machine to one of the most important days of the 20th century.

How this Van Life Pioneer Set Up His Perfect Off-Grid Camper
A little different than the other Huckberry Homes vids.

A Journey Into New York’s Basketball State of Mind
Good stuff from The Ringer’s hoops crew.

Mt. St. Helens: The Gary Rosenquist, AI interpolated landslide and eruption sequence
This is when AI is cool.

2025 Moon Phases – Northern Hemisphere
2025 Moon Phases – Southern Hemisphere
Jason Kottke posted this with the observation that blew his mind, and in turn blew mine: the moon looks upside down from your normal perspective if you cross from the northern to southern hemisphere. Or vice versa. Wild!

Star Wars: rare behind the scenes “The Empire Strikes Back”
Nine-year-old me would have thought this was the coolest thing I’d ever seen.

Picking up a new car that my daughter likes
Some quick Beau Miles bullshit. Hopefully there’s more to this next month.


Car Content

I Drive The Lucid Gravity For The First Time!
Looks incredible. Get back to me when they release a vehicle that checks in at about half the cost of the Gravity.

I Drive The Audi Q6 E-Tron For The First Time! A Better Electric SUV Than Q4 & Q8
As usual, Audi does some things amazingly well, and does some other things amazingly oddly.


Photography

Rather than post all the photog stuff I watched, here are the ones that stuck out most.

Bad Weather, Good Photos?
A Day In Cincinnati
Exploring One of the World’s Most Beautiful Countries
SantaCon, London, 2024
The Most Important Kind of Photography


Podcasts

You’re Wrong About
Trying to mix up my pod routine a bit and Overcast recommended this. I listened to the episode about Dungeons & Dragons, which was fun. The host and guest made some great observations about how weird the whole satanic panic related to D&D was. D&D kids were generally good kids with good grades who liked to read, who didn’t do drugs or get into trouble. “So they must be doing something wrong, right?” seemed to be one argument against D&D. Also, all the demons and whatnot religious types complained about…were the exact things you are trying to destroy if you’re playing D&D! And lots of other just odd stuff that made a select few parents lose their minds and get media attention in the Eighties.

A-

Stats

As usual for the first post of the New Year, here are the artists I listened to most over the past 365, errr, 366 days. As you might expect, when Pearl Jam puts out a new album that is really good and also perform in Indy, they end up dominating.

  • Pearl Jam – 725
  • Middle Kids – 274
  • The War on Drugs – 197
  • Jack White – 188
  • Wild Pink – 170
  • Hurray For The Riff Raff – 153
  • Waxahatchee – 148
  • Crowded House – 131
  • Japandroids – 124
  • Spoon – 123

And now the all time numbers. Pearl Jam took over the top spot in 2023. The built a comfortable cushion in 2024.

  • Pearl Jam – 4604
  • Frightened Rabbit – 3908
  • The War on Drugs – 3577
  • The Beatles – 2629
  • Ryan Adams – 2364
  • The Clash – 2038
  • Crowded House – 1800
  • Radiohead – 1696
  • Bruce Springsteen – 1565
  • Bing Crosby – 1348

Complete stats available on my last.fm page.

Christmas Week Notes

We had a pretty good holiday week. Lots of good times and good food with family. The weather was mostly decent, dreary but unseasonably warm all week. There was some good basketball.

The only bummer was I caught cold #1 of the season last weekend and it wore me down several days. Christmas Day and the day after were when I felt the worst, which kind of sucked. Luckily on the scale of worst colds I’ve ever had, this was maybe a 5, so more annoying that truly debilitating. Adding insult to injury, between cold meds, congestion, and the occasional afternoon caffeine boost, my sleep schedule got all jacked up. Fortunately I don’t have much that I’m required to do in the mornings right now so it’ll work itself out. Just super annoying to have to crawl out of bed after tossing and turning for 90 minutes to read for another hour in an attempt to reset my brain.


Holiday Celebrations

Because of our schedule last week, we upset the biggest of our holiday traditions.

With our Denver family arriving Christmas Eve night, we decided to let our girls open their presents on Christmas Eve. The only catch was S had to work until 3:00 that day, and our Christmas Eve gathering began at 5:00. So the girls had “Christmas” at 4:00 Tuesday afternoon. A little weird but I don’t think the girls minded.

M and L both got new shoes and pants. M got perfume and a fancy purse. L got a makeup mirror and some of her favorite beauty products. C was the tech kid this year, receiving an electric vest, an electric blanket, a new speaker, and an Apple Watch. They all seemed pleased. But they got what they asked for, so it would be dumb if they weren’t happy.

Onto S’s sister’s house for our annual Christmas Eve gathering. This year there was a Mexican theme for the food, which you can never go wrong with. Feliz Navidad! After S was off to the airport to pick up her sister and family.

Christmas morning was kind of chill without presents. As usual we hosted brunch and the day-long gathering that followed. I believe we were around 23 for food, then a few left for other events and one sister-in-law joined later in the day. The kids played games and colored ornaments and there was plenty of general family hanging out.

Thursday was our nephew’s 15th birthday, so much of the family went to Top Golf to celebrate. That was mostly about the kids, as we had way too many people for our space and had to send some of the adults inside so we didn’t get yelled at. The kids had fun, which was all that mattered.

Friday evening was a mom’s night out, so three of my brothers-in-law and I managed the kids at our house. I had a huge box of Joe’s Barbecue from a friend in Kansas City that I shared. I think all the little kids loved the ribs, brisket, and burnt ends as much as the dads. There was a lot of kid-uncle wrestling and general mayhem without the moms around.

The weekend was more chill. Our guests made the rounds visiting some other family then flew back to Denver in the evening. Sunday we took it easy, straightening up a bit but are saving most of the cleaning and taking-down of decorations for next weekend. M had some friends over and L went to a gift exchange party.

We also mixed in some movies and watching sports in there as well.

Probably too many details, but I know a lot of you expect such a breakdown after a big week, even if you don’t know many, or even any, of the other participants in our holiday activities.


HS Hoops

A terrific weekend for the Irish. They played in a holiday tournament in eastern Indiana. I wouldn’t say it was the strongest field of all the various holiday tournaments that ran over the weekend, but there were a few other decent teams, including the host squad, who were undefeated and ranked #2 in 2A. And we opened against the #12 2A team.[1] Remember, we lost to the #9 2A team two weeks ago by 13, so just because we’re 3A doesn’t mean we were the pre-tourney favorites.

In Friday’s first game, we beat the #12 team by 11 in a sloppy game. Later that evening we beat a solid 1A team by 12. As we had company, I was not able to go, but the games were streamed and I watched most of them. It was funny to blow my eight-year-old niece’s mind by saying the names of the players. “Wait, you know their names? How?!?!”

Saturday I did drive over for the championship game against, as expected, the 15–0 host Knights. They had a very poor strength of schedule rating, but 15–0 is 15–0. And they were ranked ahead of the team that beat us, so they must be good, right?

Well…

We were up 16–11 after one period and seemed to be getting a nice rhythm going. A few minutes into the second quarter their big girl, who was their only hope on offense, got her second foul and had to sit. Next thing you knew it was halftime and we were up by 21. We just destroyed those girls, carving up their zone and absolutely shutting down their offense. It was fun to watch.

In the second half, NHS stayed in their sagging zone and our girls were actually patient for the first time maybe ever. Our first three possessions of the third quarter took nearly four minutes off the clock as we passed and cut and waited for the defense to come out before getting open drives to the rim.

I think NHS might have gotten the lead down to 17 once, or maybe just 18, but for most of the second half it was between 25–30. We ended up winning by 31. If I’m looking at the records right, it was CHS’ first holiday tournament championship since December 2016. Good times and made for a happy bus ride home!

A true bonus was that L was included in the travel squad. The girls that traveled bussed over Thursday evening and spent the night at a hotel since their first game Friday was in the morning. They bussed back to Indy that night, then over again for the championship game Saturday evening. L thought she was included because she would have been on the travel roster if she was healthy. I thought it was a reward for her going to every practice and being the loudest girl on the bench during her six week absence. Or it could have just been because they only took two JV players and had room for one more girl in the hotel rooms. Or maybe a combination of all that. Regardless, it was fun she got to travel with the team, sit on the bench, and be in the postgame celebration and pictures. Varsity is now 9–6 with a week off before their next game.


Colts

Jesus…

I think it’s time for big changes in this organization. Playing against the worst team in the NFL, the New York Giants, losers of nine-straight, the Colts looked uninterested and unprepared. They gave up more points than the Giants had scored in their previous three games combined. They gave up big play after big play, including a kickoff return for a touchdown immediately after halftime. The defense missed easy tackles. Jonathan Taylor racked up a lot of yards again, but also made a few more grievous errors you just don’t make if you’re a professional who cares about the result of the game. There was even controversy about Anthony Richardson despite him not playing. After the game it was revealed that the true nature of his back injury hadn’t been shared, which led to questions about whether he was as injured as the team suggested.

It seems like everyone on this team has checked out. It’s time to pull the plug and start over. Clean out the front office and coaching staff. Trade some pieces to try to move up and grab a quarterback again, or begin the tanking process to land a high pick in the 2026 draft. Nothing they are trying is working and there’s no need to stay on the current path.

I moved to Indy in Peyton Manning’s sixth season. That year they made the playoffs for what turned out to be the second time in a nine-year span they did not miss the post season. Following the bridge year between Manning and Andrew Luck, they made the playoffs three straight times, capping that run with a loss to New England in the AFC title game. It seemed like the Colts would always be great.

Then Luck got hurt for the first time and, well, you know what happened next.

Amazingly the franchise has reached the playoffs just twice in the last decade. That doesn’t seem possible in the modern NFL, where teams go from drafting in the top ten to making the playoffs constantly. Especially playing in the AFC South. There have only been two truly bad seasons in there, both four win campaigns. Even this year the Colts could end up with eight wins.

What was once one of the most well-run and successful franchises in the NFL is now thoroughly mediocre on the field and a mess off it. Yes, having an all-time great quarterback papers over a lot of issues. I’m not sure the franchise has had much of a plan since Luck’s sudden, surprise retirement, though. And you still hear his departure as an excuse when the front office is criticized. Luck hasn’t played since 2018. It might be time to move on and figure some shit out.


Pacers

Hey, the Pacers had a nice little run going, sweeping their West Coast trip before coming home and blowing a lead late against Oklahoma City. That was a bummer but OKC is one of the two, three best teams in the league.

Then they got destroyed by the Celtics Friday. Like Colts losing to the Giants bad.

Their reward was getting to stay in Boston and take another crack at the C’s Sunday.

Guess what? They somehow fixed all their issues and led Boston wire-to-wire for a solid win. Andrew Nembhard did not play Friday, he did play Sunday. I’m not sure he’s worth 46 points, but it worked Sunday.


  1. There were teams from all four clases in the bracket.  ↩

Favorite Songs of 2024

It’s taken a little longer than normal – I am almost certain this is the latest in the calendar year I’ve ever posted it – but at last I can reveal my 20 favorite songs of the year.

This year I’ve had the the least enthusiasm I can recall about the process.[1] Usually I’ll dive into the songs in mid-fall and slowly get obsessed with the list, or at least with certain songs on it. For a week or two these will be the only songs I listen to. I never caught that fever this year. The top 5–8 songs seemed locked in, in some order, but the rest just couldn’t get my juices flowing. At one point I thought about doing only a top 10, but eventually my interest revived enough to settle on 20 songs. Still, it feels like a year where there isn’t a ton of difference between songs 11 and 30-whatever.

I realize I’m not making the best pitch for you to devote time to reading my thoughts and reviewing these songs. I apologize and ensure you it will be worth your time. At least the listening part!

20 – “Glass” – Glom
I nearly bumped this song because it is freaking impossible to search for information on this band in general and song in particular. Every search engine wants to spit out lists of the greatest Glam bands of all time. Not what I was looking for. Fortunately for Glom, the song is so pretty and fun I couldn’t resist it.

19 – “Field Recordings” – Restorations
These guys show up every 4–6 years with another B+/A- album that carries the banner for great, listenable, straight-ahead rock music. They make the wait worth it each time.

18 – “In A Dream” – Trace Mountains
Maybe a little shared DNA between this track and a few The War on Drugs tracks that leverage an insistent, mechanical, Krautrock rhythm section to propel the song forward.

17 – “Blue Skies” – Finnoguns Wake
Every year-end list needs a certified ripper. Here is 2024’s.

16 – “Kiss Me (Kill Me)” – RINSE featuring Hatchie
If Hatchie puts out music, she makes the list. That’s one of the 157 rules that govern these annual collections. An interesting twist to this year’s entry, as she provides the vocals for her husband’s project.

In a year that had a ton of great fourth (fifth? sixth?) wave shoegaze songs, this one, which leans more dream pop than shoegaze, hit the hardest with me.

15 – “Philosophy” – Middle Kids
Hey, three straight Aussie acts!

As tends to happen these days, the two best songs of MK’s album Faith Crisis Pt 1 were released as advance singles in 2023 (“Highlands” was #6 on last year’s list). This was the highlight of the tracks that were new in ’24.

Also, I received a personal message from lead singer Hannah Joy as part of my Spotify Wrapped package for this year. Even though she didn’t address me by name, I know she recorded it just for me in appreciation for being an advocate for her band and one of their biggest listeners. So I’ve got that going for me. Which is nice.

14 – “The Howl” – Crowded House
The current CH lineup is 3/5 Kiwi, 1/5 Aussie, and 1/5 American. So our Down Under run continues. Kind of. What the heck is going on here?

Neil Finn’s music has gone adrift a bit over the last decade, at least to my fanboy ears. He still makes nice enough records, but they lack singles loaded with the perfect pop punch present in his greatest songs.

When he reconvened Crowded House for their latest album, he added his sons Liam and Elroy to the lineup on guitar and drums respectively. Liam wrote this track, and while the lyrics are a little more artsy and ambiguous than his dad’s – I’ve always thought Liam’s voice sounds like his dad’s but his music and lyrics land closer to his uncle Tim’s – he helps guide Pops back to the sonic pocket he spent so much of his career in.

13 – Slugger – SASAMI
SASAMI is one of the more interesting people making music these days, combining about as wide a range of influences as you can imagine, from Korean folk to singer-songwriter ballads to metal. Here she comes close to, but does not quite reach, Crying In The Club Songs By Robyn territory.

12 – “Tonight (Was A Long Time Ago)” – Jack White
One of THE musical highlights of 2024 was White’s surprise, No Name album. First given free to customers at his two stores who bought other albums, it was later made available to fans everywhere via a series of semi-cryptic clues online that lead to a free download site. A week later it landed on proper streaming services and in traditional record stores. White-heads like me spent a couple weeks blasting this return to the music that first made him famous: roaring, bluesy, raw, riffy-as-hell garage rock. It wasn’t a full recreation of the White Stripes sound, and Meg was not behind the drum kit, but it was pretty damn close.

11 – “Old Tape” – Lucius featuring Adam Granduciel
No official new music from The War on Drugs in 2024. And it may be some time before they get around to it, given their touring schedule for 2025.[2] Adam Granduciel did help out his pals Lucius with backing vocals and guitar on this lovely song about shutting down the voices of doubt in your head and forging ahead.

10 – “Superstar” – Hinds
Summer time. Car windows down. A pissed off driver, thanks to a crush revealing their true nature. A song comes on the radio and the driver starts singing along. They sing louder and louder. Soon they are shouting. Then the tears come. Now they are screaming. By the end of the song the driver is laughing, wiping the tears away, and realizing that despite hurt, they are better without that asshole in their lives.

9 – “Docket” – Blondshell featuring Bully
There are a million – million and one? – songs about music groupies. Not many of them have come from the perspective of a female artist. This one is more about the difficulty of keeping a relationship back home when you are a traveling musician than the random hookups on the road themselves.

Last year Bully made the list with help from Soccer Mommy. This year she lends guest vocals to a friend’s track, a true banger.

8 – “Sage” – Sun June
Via the Duck Assist AI tool on the Duck Duck Go search engine:

Burning sage, also known as smudging, is an ancient spiritual ritual that involves the burning of sage or other sacred herbs to purify a space, release negative energy, and promote healing.

We need a fuck-ton of sage in this country. And more songs as gorgeous as this one. The post-chorus/outro section is the most beautiful 90 seconds of music made this year.

This was the annual track that really grabbed me over the last two months and climbed from the bottom of the list to the top half.

7 – “Wildflowers” – Jim Nothing
Clean, pure, jangle pop that sounds like a warm spring day. You can draw a straight line from The Byrds to R.E.M. to this song. It made me about as happy as any song in the last quarter of the year, a period when I needed things to make me happy. Also, our second New Zealand act.

6 – “3 Sisters” – Waxahatchee
Katie Crutchfield has always had a presence. There’s a quality to her voice that defies pinning down and appeals to me despite its pronounced twang. On her latest album, Tiger’s Blood, she completed a transition that began with her last album. She sounds bigger, stronger, more confident than ever. She embraces her rural roots while keeping one toe firmly planted in the indie rock world. That comes across most clearly on a song like this, where the restraint she sings with makes her seem even more powerful than when she’s emoting with all her might. Tiger’s Blood was not my favorite album of the year (it was in the running,). But it likely was the best one I listened to all year.

Bonus points for the title. Not sure if any of my girls have heard this song, let alone enjoy it, but I like that it makes me think of them.

5 – “She’s Leaving You” – MJ Lenderman
Man, did the music critics love Lenderman’s album Manning Fireworks. It is at or near the top of every Best Of list I’ve read this month. I gave it a shot; it wasn’t for me. Too twangy and Appalachian for my tastes. This song, though? Incredible. Absolutely incredible.

BTW, Lenderman appeared on Waxahatchee’s album, and served as opening act for her tour.

4 – “Gift Horse” – IDLES
When I first heard this, especially the closing lines, I was pumped for another pointed, anti-establishment track from my favorite rabble rousing band of the moment. Then I read an interview with lead singer Joe Talbot in which he said it is about how grateful he is to be a father, how much he loves his daughter, and how he wanted to write “a beast of a tune” about her. That puts the final line in a total different context.

Fuck the King
He ain’t the King
She’s the King

Mission accomplished.

3 – “The Fences Of Stonehenge” – Wild Pink
John Ross has a gift for making hazy-yet-bright songs that hit me right in the core of what I love about music. Those big, layered, open chords on this track are pure magic.

2 – “Hawkmoon” – Hurray for the Riff Raff
A music critic at The Atlantic suggested that HFTRR’s album was the newest, great, American road trip album. That makes this the newest, great, American road trip song. A perfect, three-minute and forty-two second distillation of Alynda Segarra’s adventures as they navigated the artistic communities of New Orleans after running away from home in New York as a teen. This also contains my favorite lyric of the year:

I’m becoming the kind of girl they warned me about.

1 – “Wreckage” – Pearl Jam
Pearl Jam isn’t supposed to make new, great music anymore. Sure, they’ll put out a new album every 4–5–6 years that might include a couple decent songs. But those singles and the albums themselves generally fade from memory quickly. Their concerts are still incredible, but they had fallen into the Old Rock Band trap of being pulled in too many different directions and spending too little time together (and probably being too old) to create compelling new songs.

Until this year.

Producer Andrew Watt, who helped Eddie Vedder on his surprisingly great solo album two years ago, insisted the band record as they used to: in focused studio sessions playing live. Rather than spending months, or even years, making an album, Dark Matter was mostly assembled in a three-week stretch. The result was a tight, fierce, absolutely locked-in effort, their best album since at least 2006’s Pearl Jam, and possibly 1994’s Vitalogy.

This track was the clear standout. It does not compare, thematically, to some of PJ’s greatest songs. It’s about a relationship falling apart – standard old man rock stuff – rather than mentally ill homeless people, teens sent to mental hospitals against their will, school room suicides, serial killers, or how fame can overwhelm you. It is hopeful rather than hopeless. It is bright rather than dark. And the magnificent final 60 seconds? Maybe the most gorgeous 60 seconds in the entire PJ catalog. I listened to “Wreckage”” a million times this year and never got sick of it. For good reason it topped my Spotify Wrapped countdown. And this list.


  1. Somewhat similar to my lagging Christmas spirit. Maybe I need to look into those “booster” supplements Doug Flutie and Frank Thomas pimp on cable TV. “She’ll thank you, too!” Sorry, I know that’s gross. But still funny.  ↩
  2. They did drop another live album this year.  ↩

Weekend Notes

Christmas week has finally arrived! The countdown that begins sometime around October 1 in my mind is just about done.

Reading through old posts, I see I often updated you all on my state of holiday spirit. This has been a weird year for me. I’ve listened to less holiday music than anytime this century maybe? Don’t get me wrong, I’ve still listened to plenty, probably more than the average person. For the first time in ages, though, I don’t have a radio/speaker in the kitchen that has defaulted to holiday music every day since Thanksgiving. For some reason this year I’ve kept our kitchen music pointed elsewhere. And I haven’t listened to our local Christmas music station once.

I’m not sure why, either.

Weird for a guy who several times a year has a dream that he made it to Christmas day without listening to all his favorite songs.

I also haven’t watched as much Christmas TV as normal. In an average year I’ll watch parts of Elf and Christmas Vacation dozens of time. This year? All the way through each movie once (so far) and then a handful of other times checking in on them. I knocked out A Christmas Story and Die Hard over the weekend. E! is showing an Office Christmas marathon later today that I’ll catch. And I ran through some of my favorite SNL holiday sketches over the weekend.

Still, my spirit seems to be lagging a bit this year and I can’t isolate the cause. Maybe it is the daily reminders that he who shall not be named is already making noise that the next four years will be far worse than his first crack at fucking up the world. Maybe it’s because our kids are older and don’t get excited about the lead-up to the holiday anymore?

Here’s the best way to measure my Christmas spirit: despite understanding how a calendar works, Sunday morning was the first time it hit me that Christmas Eve is Tuesday. For some reason I thought it was Wednesday and I had two full days this week to get ready for our festivities. And I’m the one who does the family advent calendar every day. Yet somehow I was a day behind.

Anyway, today I was off early for a grocery run then hit Costco as soon as it opened. Pro tip: a lot of times during the holidays, Costco will open their doors a few minutes early. I walked in at 9:52 when they weren’t supposed to open until 10. I was out in 25 minutes, which has to be December record. I’ll have to make one more grocery run tomorrow to fill a few holes, grab another dessert, and load up on ice.

We have our first family gathering Tuesday evening. Our guests from Denver will arrive late tomorrow night. Christmas day we will host our annual brunch for about 25. We have plenty of other stuff planned for the week. As usual, you’ll get a full roundup next week.

Now some quick-ish words about the weekend.


CFP

Thanks to our weekend schedule and how the games turned out, I was only able to watch all of the Indiana-Notre Dame CFP game this weekend. The environment in South Bend was amazing; I don’t recall a regular season Notre Dame game seeming like that, although I’m far from an expert on the matter. Irish fans seemed extra fired up and there were just enough IU fans in the crowd to push things to another level. At least until the Irish ran away with the game. It would have been even cooler if the heavy snow that was falling about an hour west of South Bend and drifted to Notre Dame Stadium.

I agree with the snap judgement: not only is having first round games on campus a genius idea, but the quarterfinals really should be on campus as well. This is college sports, though, and things that make total sense rarely happen. Forget what’s best for the game or the fans, or that rewards nearly four months of excellence, the old bowl structure must have final say on where the playoff teams end up.

Of course there was immediate backlash about how IU didn’t deserve to be in the tournament. Which spilled over to SMU and Clemson Saturday. Strangely I didn’t hear nearly as much chatter about Tennessee not being worthy. Wonder why?

I think the big takeaway, if you have to make one based on four games in the first year of the new format, is that 12 teams is too many. The line for where the best team is college football is probably falls in the 5–6–7–8 area most years. That doesn’t mean we will always see blowouts in the first round. I do think they are more likely, though, than classic games.

Again, we shouldn’t burn down the system because of a single year. And also don’t lose three games if you want a shot.

Oh, speaking of how dumb college sports are, opening the transfer portal while there are still games being played might the the dumbest thing yet. College sports always finds a way to drain a little more out of the shallow end of the dumb pool.


HS Hoops

Big games Saturday for the Irish. They took on HCA, the Christian school from around the way. This is the team L and I went to scout a week ago when we watched her buddy play against them. She had shared her thoughts with her coaches, so I guess the result was a measure of her scouting abilities.

Varsity won by nine. The game was close in the first half then we led comfortably almost the entire second half, although we could never stretch it out to blow out territory. We watched HCA lose by nearly 30 a week ago. I think if we had played zone like BCHS did against them, we would have won by more. But we don’t play zone much and I think our coaches were worried since HCA has shooters.

JV got a nice, 17-point win. After the game L announced in the locker room that this was probably her last game to sit out. She said everyone screamed and yelled. Now fingers crossed she gets cleared in a week. JV is 9–3, 7–1 without her, so I joked that maybe they don’t want her back.

Varsity is 6–6. They have a tournament this coming weekend; JV is off until January 8.


KU Hoops

After a sluggish start the Jayhawks got their shit together in the second half and pounded Brown by 34. Not the 70 or 58 point wins the first two times these programs played. But still solid. Eight days until Big 12 play begins. More about the state of the team later.


Colts/Pacers

Both local teams get nice wins Sunday. I only saw part of the Colts game. Fortunately it was the good part.

And don’t look now but the Pacers have won four-straight and five-of-six after blasting Sacramento last night. I had to run to get L from a friends and in about eight minutes of game time the Pacers grew their lead from 12 to 29 at one point. They were cooking! The toughest part of this toughest stretch of the year is still to come, but the team is getting healthy and starting to play much better.


Rickey

The biggest news of the weekend was the death of Rickey Henderson, one of the greatest players in the history of Major League Baseball. He, Jim Rice, and George Brett were my holy trinity of favorite players when I was a kid. I’m pretty sure in my big box of baseball cards in the basement I have whole sheets of his cards in an album, the highest praise from me in the early Eighties.

There was this weird spot in our backyard where someone had let a fishing boat sit upside-down for years so grass didn’t grow, basically turning it into a dirt pit. I used it to practice diving back to first base, as if a pitcher was trying to pick me off, imagining I was Rickey.[1]

There genuinely was no one ever like Rickey with his combination of speed, power, and on-base ability. He along with Bo Jackson were the type of players you had to see to believe, and even then you didn’t fully trust your eyes. He ruffled all kinds of feathers amongst older fans, but for kids of my generation, he was about as cool as it got.

For years there were all kinds of crazy stories about his eccentricities. Later we learned that he was one of the kindest men in the game, someone who remembered where he came from and made sure to take care of those who made his life easier.

Mike Piazza shared this great story of how Rickey responded when voting on playoff shares one year:

“[He] was the most generous guy I ever played with, and whenever the discussion came around to what we should give one of the fringe people — whether it was a minor leaguer who came up for a few days or the parking lot attendant — Rickey would shout out “Full Share!” We’d argue for a while, and he’d say, “F— that! You can change somebody’s life.”

RIP to one of the greatest.


Not sure what the blog schedule will be for the rest of the week. My Favorite Songs list isn’t quite ready, so I may hold onto it until next week. I may share some links but otherwise this may be it for a few days. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you all!


  1. Remember, I was a geeky, sports-obsessed, only child.  ↩

Reaching For The Stars, Vol. 108

Chart Week: December 13, 1980
Song: “(Just Like) Starting Over” – John Lennon
Chart Position: #4, 7th week on the chart. Peaked at #1 for five weeks across December and January.

This entry is less about a specific song than an extraordinary moment in American Top 40 history. And an opportunity for me to revisit a lost piece of writing from my past.

One December night in the mid–2000s, I sat down and quickly typed out what I think is one of the best things I’ve ever written. It was too personal to share, though, so I stashed it in whatever notes/journaling app I was using at the time. Since I was a serial app hopper back in the day – trying out whatever the newest, latest, interesting program Mac Geeks were yapping about – I eventually lost that draft as I failed to save it while jumping from App A to App B. I’ve tried to re-create it a few times, but never captured the tone or emotion of that initial effort.

That essay was about the night/week John Lennon died and how I imagined my mom reacted to his death.

My memories of that night, December 8, 1980, are vague. I had likely been watching the Monday Night Football game between the New England Patriots and Miami Dolphins earlier in the evening. I know my mom was working late so I would have been staying at a sitter’s house, and the sitter’s husband always had MNF on while he drank 182 beers. However, my mom had picked me up and we were home, with me likely in bed, by the time Howard Cosell made his famous announcement of Lennon’s passing.

I definitely remember being at the mall the night after the shooting and hearing Lennon’s music coming out of every store instead of the usual holiday racket. I recall the coverage on the news of people gathering in Central Park to mourn his death, which didn’t make sense to me. I knew who the Beatles were – my parents had their “Blue Album” which they listened to a ton when I was little – but likely didn’t understand who Lennon was until that week. Why were all these people so sad about a singer dying?[1]

I have fuzzy mental images of my mom being sad that week, but that may be more my brain making it up than based on reality. Besides, she was down a lot that fall and winter, so no particular night of sadness would seem unusual.

She was going through one of the most difficult stages of her life at the time. We moved to Kansas City in July and a few weeks later she and my dad finally decided to divorce after being separated off-and-on for most of the previous two years. Their marriage officially ended four days after Lennon was killed. She struggled to find a job in KC, working 10–12 hour shifts at a mall jewelry store while she sent out resumes hoping to re-launch her marketing career. She had a nine-year-old kid who was kind of a pain in the ass, mostly because he was getting into trouble at school a lot after the move. She was deeply in debt, some of it leftover from college and some that she and my dad had racked up trying to stay afloat in the difficult late–70s economy. My mom was generally an optimistic person, but when I think of her during this period, I see her worn out, depressed, and sleeping a lot.

In that lost composition from nearly 20 years ago, I tried to get into her head and understand what she may have been feeling after she learned of Lennon’s passing. She had all this other shit she was dealing with and then a man who wrote and sang some of her favorite songs of her teenage and young adult years was murdered in cold blood. For her, like so many others her age, any idealism left from her college years was likely destroyed for good that night. The world must have seemed very bleak to her. I think I went to some dark places in my essay, which probably was the reason I kept it to myself.

I never got the chance to ask my mom about that week in December 1980. She died in 1998 and I didn’t really fall in love with the Beatles until a few years later, when high speed internet and file sharing allowed me to dive deeply into their catalog. By then my own recollections of the week of Lennon’s death had faded so they were barely distinguishable amongst all the other 1980 nostalgia in my head.[2]

I wish I still had those drafted words. Maybe it is fitting, though, that they were deleted from the hard drive that held them and my memories of it are hazy and imperfect, much like my memories of the week John Lennon died.


Now to that piece of American Top 40 history. Lennon’s death forced a change to the show that had never been done before, nor since, as far as I can tell. Although he was killed on a Monday night, the program for the week of December 13 had already been recorded and was being pressed and shipped to radio stations.[3] Following the shooting, Casey Kasem recorded a brief tribute to Lennon, recalling his career, how his life fell apart in the Seventies, how he retreated from the public eye to be with his family, and how he had recently released a new album.[4] Casey ended with a message to both Yoko Ono and Sean Lennon. It is a powerful moment that closed a terrible week for music fans.

The addendum was rushed to radio stations and most inserted it into the countdown before the number four song that week, Lennon’s comeback hit, “(Just Like) Starting Over.”

(Here is another video that has both the original and revised introductions. It also adds some unnecessary music so I did not embed it.)


It is impossible for me to evaluate “(Just Like) Starting Over,” or the other two singles from the Double Fantasy album – “Woman” and “Watching the Wheels” – dispassionately. I’m pretty sure I rate them all one-to-three points higher than I would had Lennon not been shot and killed as/before they were played on the radio. They will forever be weighed down by the knowledge that Lennon was murdered just as he was about to top the pop charts again. They will always remind me of what my mom was going through, as well.

“(Just Like) Starting Over” was a wonderful way for John Lennon to re-introduce himself to the public. It had a light, throwback vibe that recalled the early rock songs he fell in love with and inspired him to start making his own music. Lennon admitted that he was trying to sound like Elvis or Roy Orbison on some of his vocals. The track is about recommitting to a relationship, just as he was doing to his fans who had waited patiently for new music from him. There’s nothing edgy or experimental about it like much of his late era Beatles work, nor confrontational and caustic like some of his Seventies records. I think that’s the point. He had just turned 40. He was happy and healthy. He was rejoining the world after hiding at home for five years. There was nothing wrong with making solid pop music that didn’t have a huge message beyond remembering how much you love the person you’ve chosen to spend your life with. 8/10


  1. Fast forward nearly 40 years and I finally understood based on my reaction when Prince and Scott Hutchison died.  ↩
  2. Big 1980 memories include: The Winter Olympics/Miracle on Ice, moving to Kansas City, George Brett’s summer chasing .400 and the Royals making the World Series, The Empire Strikes Back, a new school with new friends and enemies. I generally remember that year being a good one because I was kind of oblivious to the bad stuff my mom was going through.  ↩
  3. Casey got the weekly charts from Billboard before they were officially published. There was some serious lag between airplay/sales and when you heard a song on AT40.  ↩
  4. Casey left out the boozing, heroin, and infidelity in his description of Lennon’s “Lost Weekend.”  ↩
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